'cause I need something to do...

>1) At what age did you
>have your first sexual
>experience?

16

>
>2) What was your chief motivation
>for entering that
>relationship, or those relationships?

we had that puppy love thing going...very innocent at first. just progressed as we got older.


>3) Do you distinguish sex from
>love, or are they the
>
>same thing to you?

TOTALLY separate entities. Sex is a part of love, but just cause I sleep w/ someone doesn't mean they owe me something


>4) Did you ever consider having
>a child, although at
>the time you weren't married? If
>yes, how old were you
>
>and what motivated the desire?

no. I have been in relationships where I knew I wouldn't abort the child if that were to happen, but I never really *wanted* kids.


>
>5) If you have children, what
>is your relationship
>with them- are they used to
>fill the empty space in
>
>your life; so they serve as
>a weapon for keeping your
>
>partner in line, etc. If you
>do not have children, so
>
>you still have a strong desire
>to have them; what is
>
>your motivation?

n/a


>6) How and why did you
>end your last relationship?

He broke it off. He was having some serious issues in his life and didn't want me caught up in them, so he left.


>7) How strongly do you respond
>to criticism from a
>mate? Even when the criticism is
>valid, do you
>sometimes find yourself worried about whether
>the
>comments mean he is about to
>break off the
>relationship?

no. if it's invalid, I'll let him know. if it's valid, I'll see what I can do to work it out.


>8) Do you prefer dating men
>who are married, have
>another girlfriend, or are intensely involed
>with
>their work?

hell the fuck no. for a myriad of reasons.


>9) Do you sometimes find yourself
>in a good
>relationship but still feel uncomfortable about
>it?

I've been very blessed in my relationships. Although I do have my insecurities, I wouldn't say I feel uncomfortable just because the relationship is going well.


>10) How often have you ended
>a relationship before the
>man whom you were dating, living
>with, or married to
>decided to end it?

once.


>11) When you look at yourself
>in the mirror, what do
>
>you see? Are you comfortable or
>uncomfortable with
>your body image?

nope. I mean, we all have our bad days, but generally I'm fine w/ what I see.


>12) How many times have you
>tried dieting or gaining
>weight over the last three years?

none.


>13) Have you ever suffered bulimia,
>anorexia, or any
>other eating disorder?

no.


>14) When you are hurt, angry,
>or lonely, do you
>frequently head for the refridgerator, for
>the stove,
>or for that bottle of wine?

no...I usually wind up writing.


>15) How often do you head
>for work, either in your
>
>house or at your office, when
>things are going badly
>in a relationship?

I don't.

>
>16) Do you lash out at
>others for no apparent reason?

no...


>17) Have you within the past
>five years been the first
>
>to attack, verbally or physically, your
>male partner?

um...not that I can remember


>18) Do you sometimes become so
>angry with yourself
>that you deny yourself certain niceties?

no


>19) Do you sometimes spend days
>in bed when you are
>
>not physically ill, find yourself tired
>when you have
>exerted very little if any physical
>energy, realize
>you can't get yourself motivated?

nope.

>
>20) Have you ever thought that
>you would be better off
>
>dead, ever thought of commiting suicide,
>ever
>attempted suicide?

no


>21) Do you sometimes bend over
>backward in a
>relationship, attempting to please the other
>person,
>even if it means sacrificing your
>own pleasure and
>happiness?

to a certain extent (like when I'm first getting to know someone) I find myself catering to my sig. other, but not to that extent.


>22) Do you invest more time
>in helping a man improve
>
>his life than you do in
>improving your own?

no.


>23) Are you frequently overly conscious
>of how people
>perceive you?

no


>24) Do you feel that you
>never measure up to others?

no.


>25) Do you believe everything you
>do has to be
>perfect?

hell no



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