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>And yes...A weak man CAN NOT >BE A PROTECTOR OF A >SURVIVOR (<--I hope) such as >your likes...However, to give up >on the structure of FAMILY >(TWO OPPOSITE SEX PARENTAL FIGURES >TO GUIDE THE CHILDREN), whether >married or not... > >It WILL lead to disappointment... > >TRUST... >Though you MAY NOT be able >to appreciate it now through >what you see/have seen...YOU AS >A WOMAN NEED A GOOD >"STRONG"(<--By the way, what's your >definition? Just Curious...) MAN TO >GROW INTO OLD AGE WITH....MOST >ESPECIALLY TO RAISE HEALTHY CHILDREN >WITH....OVERSTAND THAT NO WOMAN CAN >RAISE A BOY INTO A >MAN. I KNOW THIS >FROM A FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE >BEING THE SON OF A >SINGLE MOTHER WHO TRIED TO >RAISE ME TO AVOID PHYSICAL >CONFRONTATION AT ALL COSTS...(didn't work >also).......Plus, there are just things >a boy can NOT discuss >with a woman for guidance >and understanding...Plus.... > >The world is tough without us...You'd >be SURPRISED at all the >little things our strength can >accomplish. Even when you >break it down to the >point of moving heavy objects >around the apartment/house, a man, >in the most basic sense, >is a utility no woman >can/should be without...
You replied... >It is quite possible to be >a strong, Black woman, raise >your own children, and have >male role models in your >children's life who are not >necessarily your King. While the >ultimate situation would be to >have two WHOLE parents raising >the children, sometimes that is >not possible.
NO DOUBT. Sometimes people just find out a lil late that they're not fit to be together. This is true.
For me personally, >I plan to adopt, with, >or without a Husband. A >"strong, good" Man ENHANCES a >family situation, but a family >situation could still be loving >and functional w/o a full-time >father presence.
It is just >important to make sure that >the children are provided positive >male role models outside the >home in those scenarioes. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Thank You for saying this...This is actually what I meant to say. I don't know if my statements reflected this. But we got beef now for this accusation......
>*If U have won a Grammy, >one of two things are >at play: 1. Your shit >is TIGHT > > > > 2. >U are white >-(Me)
^^^^Is ?uestlove white? I think it just means your music REALLY sold, REALLY safe, or REALLY tight or all of the above... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ June sig on the way.
_____________________________________________ DOWNLOAD THE HELLO EP Spit by yours truly! http://www.zshare.net/download/80520753aae60df7/ Just a PSA
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