>And yes...A weak man CAN NOT >BE A PROTECTOR OF A >SURVIVOR (<--I hope) such as >your likes...However, to give up >on the structure of FAMILY >(TWO OPPOSITE SEX PARENTAL FIGURES >TO GUIDE THE CHILDREN), whether >married or not...
i have not given up on the structure of family.....i believe that two whole and spiritually healthy adults can raise children....
>It will lead to disappointment.....
inept and spiritually broken parents lead to disappointment also...
>TRUST... >Though you MAY NOT be able >to appreciate it now through >what you see/have seen...YOU AS >A WOMAN NEED A GOOD >"STRONG"(<--By the way, what's your >definition? Just Curious...) MAN TO >GROW INTO OLD AGE WITH....MOST >ESPECIALLY TO RAISE HEALTHY CHILDREN >WITH....OVERSTAND THAT NO WOMAN CAN >RAISE A BOY INTO A >MAN. I KNOW THIS >FROM A FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE >BEING THE SON OF A >SINGLE MOTHER WHO TRIED TO >RAISE ME TO AVOID PHYSICAL >CONFRONTATION AT ALL COSTS...(didn't work >also).......Plus, there are just things >a boy can NOT discuss >with a woman for guidance >and understanding...Plus....
please, do not presume that you know what i need.....i don't need a man to save me from my abusive past or be my knight in shining armor.....i won't raise children, without a husband.....and i understand that i may never find a man to build a family with.....therefore, i am content with being single, without children......
>The world is tough without us...You'd >be SURPRISED at all the >little things our strength can >accomplish. Even when you >break it down to the >point of moving heavy objects >around the apartment/house, a man, >in the most basic sense, >is a utility no woman >can/should be without...
physical strength...is that why i should trust a man with my vulnerability for life, because he can move my frickin' furniture.....surely you jest....and believe you me and can be without it......you underestimate my strength......