just to say that while some women are reading "fatherlessness and black women:..." others are reading "abusive fathers and black women:..." and answering the same questions.
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"you came and opened me, now there's so much more i see" stevie wonder verse / that's what friends are for
"...sell crazy somewhere else, lady. we're all stocked up here." jack nicholson line / as good as it gets
"it took a while to get me here and i'm gonna take my time" gwen stefani / eve's -let me blow ya mind-