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79. "...i understand..."
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...the whole black unity ish and all, y'know? ...all i'm sayin' is i am SO tired of walking in the mall with my girlfriend, who just happens to be asian/white, and passing a group of black girls who give her the evil eye 'cause she's "stolen" me... that's bullshit. gawd, i keep repeating myself, but i think it applies... i, as a person, belong to no one... so i can't be "stolen"...<P>...i mean... with all the black unity... you're preachin' to the choir... no one wants to see black people get their ish t'gether more than me... really... but my dating a girl with whom i am greatly smitten has little or nothing to do with that... as long as i am dating for genuine affection rather than some self-hating need to become better or whatever... and all my questions were "assuming that one doesn't have one of those self-hating complexes"... i agree that people like that should do some serious self-evaluation... i'm just saying i'm not one of them, and on those grounds... i asked if you've then got a problem with my dating someone of another color...<P>...and you say "the black woman is a queen" as though i don't recognize that... dammit, don't tell me to fuckin' remember somethin' i already know... i swear, everyone says that shit like they're droppin' some goddam hidden knowledge and i'm their unlearned student... quit that shit! ...just because i happen to be dating a non-black girl doesn't mean i don't recognize the beauty in african american women... it just means that i'm not fuckin' stupid enough to limit such a huge portion of the population of potential mates simply because they've got differing amounts of melanin... i try my damndest to evaluate people on an individual basis...<BR>...sorry... it's just i hear that shit soooo often... every fuckin' day, y'know... i dunno... all i'm sayin' is that sometimes, stereotypes hold true, y'know? ...sometimes, black women do have a bit too much attitude to deal with on the daily... and some guys don' wanna put up with it... and maybe... just maybe... that brotha (or sista) you're so mad at for dating that white girl/boy is genuinely attracted to them and the only person really seriously considering race is YOU...<BR>-kevin<P>"without awareness, there is no life... only activity"

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tariq whatz up with this interracial shit????? [View all] , posvibes, Mon Nov-22-99 12:34 PM
 
Subject Author Message Date ID
You need to be bitch slapped.....
Supreme
Nov 22nd 1999
1
nieve generation X
posvibes
Nov 23rd 1999
11
      Why wasn't this your original post?
Nov 23rd 1999
14
      looked like a riot to me!
Nov 25th 1999
15
           From what I saw
Nov 29th 1999
29
      Typical???
Nov 26th 1999
21
      I agree...to some extent
BlackSuga
Dec 01st 1999
42
Yo....
Crossfaded
Nov 22nd 1999
2
I urge people not to respond to this message n/m
Nov 22nd 1999
3
big up to roots manuva
posvibes
Nov 23rd 1999
13
hmmmm
Nov 22nd 1999
4
Good observation ?uest...
Supreme
Nov 22nd 1999
5
yessss.....
Nov 26th 1999
20
positive vibrations can hurt
posvibes
Nov 23rd 1999
12
whut vibez?
goodvibez
Dec 03rd 1999
59
Remember kiddies typing in all caps get you no where
homebro
Dec 04th 1999
73
you're a full blooded idiot...
Nov 22nd 1999
6
My sentiments exactly, Will...
kawright
Nov 26th 1999
18
Ill, Kristy, and me...
Nov 29th 1999
28
explain
Nov 22nd 1999
7
Stringy hair???
Nov 22nd 1999
8
What kind of peaches are you eatin?n/m
Amenhotep
Nov 27th 1999
22
      You prolly should ask my momma....
Nov 27th 1999
24
again, I beg people not to reply to this post n/m
Nov 23rd 1999
9
sorry MKE...couldn't resist
Nov 23rd 1999
10
LOVE IS COLORBLIND.
LOVEBUG
Nov 26th 1999
16
........an Okstoning!!
Nov 26th 1999
17
if everyone would just...
smartball
Nov 26th 1999
19
passive violence
posvibes
Nov 27th 1999
23
      Well first of all.....
Supreme
Nov 27th 1999
25
      Oh word??? you know mos def???
bananaman
Nov 27th 1999
26
      Thank you banana....
Supreme
Nov 27th 1999
27
      who do i hate?
posvibes
Nov 29th 1999
30
           Art...
Crossfaded
Nov 29th 1999
31
           Dominant doesn't mean better
Nov 29th 1999
32
                I know...
Crossfaded
Nov 30th 1999
35
           NOT EVERYONE OVERSTANDS
melaninmama
Nov 30th 1999
37
           Over consumed
Dec 03rd 1999
60
           Big up's pos.....
Dec 01st 1999
50
      i am really proud...
Nov 29th 1999
33
...sigh...
Nov 29th 1999
34
DAYYYYUM!!! 2cd attempt!!
melaninmama
Nov 30th 1999
36
to melaninmama and negvibes
Nov 30th 1999
41
Hold Up....
melaninmama
Dec 01st 1999
45
      chill, once again....
Dec 01st 1999
46
           But Tinkkkkkkyyyyyy!!!
melaninmama
Dec 01st 1999
47
                directed at you because....
Dec 02nd 1999
52
                maybe you're right...
Dec 02nd 1999
53
Oh, and our ancestors had a chance to....
Dec 05th 1999
76
i hate to get involved....
Nov 30th 1999
38
Your no better than the &quot;stringy haired&quot;! Dumb ass!!!
Nov 30th 1999
39
Nobody likes you posvibes....
Supreme
Nov 30th 1999
40
stop it !
Dec 01st 1999
43
re-statement of misposted truths
BlackSuga
Dec 01st 1999
44
BT is the perfect choice!
Dec 01st 1999
48
Damn!! I'm sorry
LOVEBUG
Dec 01st 1999
49
Brooklyn Babylon
Dec 01st 1999
51
TO THE BLACK PEOPLE....
SAVIR
Dec 02nd 1999
54
I am very grateful....
melaninmama
Dec 02nd 1999
55
wait up..
Dec 02nd 1999
58
      i tried to...
Dec 03rd 1999
61
      Your post...
Crossfaded
Dec 03rd 1999
65
      Your post...
Crossfaded
Dec 03rd 1999
66
      Oversimplified.....
Dec 03rd 1999
68
           much respect...
Dec 04th 1999
72
                See.....that's what I'm talkin' bout
Dec 04th 1999
75
Im feelin' you
Dec 02nd 1999
56
the real problem with this post...
Dec 02nd 1999
57
Read this whole post!!!
Dec 03rd 1999
67
      well put
Dec 06th 1999
78
     
           I'm not judhing you. Check yo self!
Dec 06th 1999
80
                word...
Dec 06th 1999
81
                     aight, cool
Dec 06th 1999
82
TO ALL PEOPLE
Krutch
Dec 03rd 1999
62
FOR ALL PEOPLE
Krutch
Dec 03rd 1999
63
damnit... work.. please
Krutch
Dec 03rd 1999
64
YOU CAN TAKE YOUR ?'S AND SHOVE THEM UP YOUR ASS!!!!
HotPoop
Dec 03rd 1999
69
its all so simple, really
your_M0MS
Dec 03rd 1999
70
      Can I call you Mommie????
Dec 03rd 1999
71
As much as I hate interracial dating
homebro
Dec 04th 1999
74
Light Skin girls YES...White girls.....
Isa
Dec 06th 1999
77
&quot;every n*gga got 1 on there bench.&quot;?
BlackSuga
Dec 07th 1999
83
Astaghfirallah!!!!!! n/m
Ayana
Dec 10th 1999
84

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