I'm not gay. I'll say it today, tommorow, and next week. I'll say it when I feel like it and how many times I feel like it. You shouldn't try to make someone feel guilty because they say they're not gay. Gays dont want people to make them feel guilty because they say they're gay. That does happen often. But, 2 wrongs dont make a right. Saying your straight doesn't mean your insecure it means you want the people your talking too to know that you're straight. I'm a ball player. I'm down to earth. I'm hard working. I'm thoughtful. And by the way, I'm as straight as a sista's hair right after a perm.