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"That ONE time I dated a white man..."


  

          

My friend's boyfriend felt the need to explain why to his friend who liked me by saying "Oh, well you know she went to private school."

The ONE time I dated a white man.

After over 15 years of only dating brothers.

Not that I ever gave a shit about people who date interracially, but my experience when I dated a white man further cemented why I didn't care:

I don't look at someone else's mate choice and give it meaning to my life.

I don't see someone else's gain (in this cause, a non-Black woman with a Black man) as my lack.

Also, fuck Roland Martin for trying to troll us. https://twitter.com/rolandsmartin/status/785998500634976256

Queen Latifah's role in Jungle Fever was over 20 years ago. Give it a rest. Brothers: Most Black women don't give a shit who you date.

Now, if you're like Dennis Rodman, and you date non-Black women as some slight to Black women, you need chapstick and prayer. Like Dennis Rodman.
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That ONE time I dated a white man... [View all] , caramelapplebttms, Wed Oct-12-16 12:21 AM
 
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I aint gonna lie...
Oct 12th 2016
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:(
Oct 12th 2016
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I'm sorry man, there's a lot that goes into it
Oct 12th 2016
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      nah i'm just breaking balls.
Oct 13th 2016
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To me it depends where you live.
Oct 12th 2016
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      If you live in SoCal, Manhattan or Park Slope you good
Oct 12th 2016
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           .... DC
Oct 12th 2016
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RE: That ONE time I dated a white man...
Oct 12th 2016
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I don't understand the question but it looks like I'd have to care
Oct 12th 2016
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      Yeah. Don't let my bad jokes affect you.
Oct 12th 2016
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      Can you jump straight from Lupita to Allison Williams, is the ?
Oct 12th 2016
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           RE: Can you jump straight from Lupita to Allison Williams, is the ?
Oct 12th 2016
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Most playery Black females don't care but irl? Sheeeeit.
Oct 12th 2016
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Maybe I'm insulted by being lumped in w/ people...
Oct 12th 2016
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you call them brothers, but i don't notice any actual solidarity.
Oct 12th 2016
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      Yeah I'd hate myself if I were you.
Oct 12th 2016
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      If "us"= The ashy, Youtube Illuminati video-watching hotep brigade
Oct 12th 2016
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           whoa. you have no idea what type of person i am. fascinating.
Oct 12th 2016
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                he date's white dudes... his hate is strong
Oct 12th 2016
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                The irony is so delicious.
Oct 12th 2016
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                i agree. it seems we've found ourselves in a curious position.
Oct 12th 2016
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                But your fool-ass knows what type SHE is.
Oct 12th 2016
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                     girl, quit playing on my phone.
Oct 12th 2016
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                          LOL.
Oct 12th 2016
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"playery Black females" a dying breed round these parts
Oct 12th 2016
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Luke Cage viewership? wtf..lol
Oct 12th 2016
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      No, Colter is married to a white woman irl
Oct 12th 2016
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           oh, see... I had no idea
Oct 12th 2016
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Exactly n/m
Oct 12th 2016
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Not lying.
Oct 12th 2016
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Okay, so who was throwing rocks?
Oct 12th 2016
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I don't care and never cared.
Oct 12th 2016
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RE: That ONE time I dated a white man...
Oct 12th 2016
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*head nod*
Oct 12th 2016
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THIS BLACK FEMINIST SAYS OTHERWISE.
Oct 12th 2016
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Didn't think the backlash to the backlash would take this form....
Oct 12th 2016
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whyever not?
Oct 12th 2016
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Hurt voices are always the loudest
Oct 12th 2016
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Theory: Black men/Black women project their trauma on each other
Oct 12th 2016
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Either I am confused or you just posted some racist shit.
Oct 12th 2016
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nah, it's clear as shit...
Oct 12th 2016
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You're confused. The original message wasn't prescriptive
Oct 12th 2016
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      ...
Oct 12th 2016
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      I think it's racist to think black relationships are inherently harmful/...
Oct 12th 2016
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           ALL relationships involving people w/ unhealed trauma are harmful
Oct 12th 2016
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                If it isn't exclusive to black people, why are you making this point now
Oct 12th 2016
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                Imma say this, and nothing else
Oct 12th 2016
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                     I hear you but your descriptive sounds prescriptive if you are observing...
Oct 12th 2016
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                          Nope. Nope. Nope. *sigh*
Oct 12th 2016
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                i feel you
Oct 13th 2016
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Sometimes this is the case. I grew up listening to rap music so I would
Oct 13th 2016
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lately I've only been approached by them...
Oct 12th 2016
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what do you think the mystery is?
Oct 12th 2016
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      I'm honestly not sure...
Oct 12th 2016
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           I would guess that they are attracted you
Oct 12th 2016
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                lol
Oct 12th 2016
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                     let me explain so that it doesn't tickle you...
Oct 12th 2016
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                          talk to them and find out
Oct 12th 2016
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lol!
Oct 12th 2016
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WHITE ON!!!
Oct 12th 2016
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Was with a group of black women recently and they asked me how
Oct 12th 2016
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Certain Asian countries are ridiculously sexist, how could you blame the...
Oct 12th 2016
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      So the white dude is better to her than the Asian-background guy
Oct 12th 2016
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           That is the perception. If nothing else, she can loosen the leash of
Oct 13th 2016
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A surprising amount of home girls from school ended up marrying white.
Oct 12th 2016
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what do you think that means?
Oct 12th 2016
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      The ice is actually colder
Oct 12th 2016
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      Nah, poor choices and bitter/jaded-ness
Oct 12th 2016
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      what nigga?
Oct 12th 2016
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           They realized when a white man is nice... he is soooo much nicer
Oct 12th 2016
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                yep
Oct 12th 2016
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                Proof you can never break patterns on a surface level
Oct 12th 2016
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                I've inquired...
Oct 12th 2016
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                Yup. Its rarely a (BLACK) man or woman issue.
Oct 12th 2016
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                and more times than not its a lie
Oct 12th 2016
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                bitchiness is one thing
Oct 12th 2016
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                I'm loving the truth in this reply
Oct 12th 2016
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                I struggle w/ the fact that the white guy did treat me better
Oct 12th 2016
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                     I won't let you do this...
Oct 12th 2016
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                          I had bad choices for not choosing a white man who treated me bad??
Oct 12th 2016
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                               You could have found a black man that treated you well
Oct 12th 2016
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                               she. doesn't. date. white. guys.
Oct 12th 2016
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                               Ok. I see that. But why COMPARE?
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    I denounce making mate choice a political choice by default
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    i'm not sure you're actually reading this post and her words.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         You're probably right, bruh.
Oct 12th 2016
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                               I did. He treated me better than 70%
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    how far did you and the white man get beyond sex?
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    You are a brother I would be happy to let a white woman have. nm
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         im sorry. im not interested in dating white women.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    nope you have to say
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    #ALLBLACKDATESMATTER LOL
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                                         RE: #ALLBLACKDATESMATTER LOL
Oct 12th 2016
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                                              Y'all stay on this. Yet most dudes commenting are all married / beau'd u...
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   good as fuck.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   Being in a relationship just means you've found your reflection
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                        deep. did you read this on instagram?
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                        welp
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                        BLOOP!
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                        :( i sense major dissatisfaction with many of your life's choices.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                             i smell a troll
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                                  troll? honey, that's your rancid snatch.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                                       you smelling yourself
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                                       oh. you're a follower. makes sense.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                                       You're too clever for this vulgar shit, man.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                                       agreed.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                        I said WE GOOD, lol.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    that ONE time i slapped my momma.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         y'all do this to yourselves
Oct 12th 2016
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                                              don't you put that evil on me!
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   you in the exceptional part!
Oct 12th 2016
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                               no. your reference to being treated better...
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    you seem to be using her story to make a point.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    I am...how it shows up for me.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         bless your heart.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                              its know different than how you represent the gays...
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   ONE GROUP!?!? I'm talking about ONE MAN.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   mm-hmm.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                                   girl stop
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    Don't use terms like "FACT" please
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         yep
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         Just a thought.....
Oct 12th 2016
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                                              The 70% largely consist of one-offs
Oct 13th 2016
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      Ionknow what it means. I always considered it settling on their part.
Oct 12th 2016
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I'm getting real tired of this shtick on 2 Dope Queens
Oct 12th 2016
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I don't know how y'all can consume this stuff.
Oct 12th 2016
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because the guests are always popping. im never not laughing
Oct 12th 2016
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Yeah they may fit in the female Dennis Rodman category
Oct 12th 2016
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I think they have two approaches happening
Oct 12th 2016
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Lol, why even entertain that shit?
Oct 12th 2016
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yep the doing too much section
Oct 12th 2016
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Are you a dude?
Oct 12th 2016
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alright, I'll play, what do you mean?
Oct 12th 2016
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      You know what. I don't have a point. Good call.
Oct 12th 2016
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           I mean, I've talked about this topic with my woman
Oct 12th 2016
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I've seen Jessica Williams all over Brooklyn with her white dude.
Oct 12th 2016
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Roland is lying per usual, Black women support films/tv that
Oct 12th 2016
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BOAN didn't flop... I wish people would stop with this lie
Oct 12th 2016
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      It opened 6th, made under $10 mil, Fox Searchlight paid almos
Oct 12th 2016
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           they projected 9 to 10 mill opening week.
Oct 12th 2016
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Hold on to these RECEIPTS
Oct 12th 2016
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Can someone send Roland Martin these links on Twitter?
Oct 12th 2016
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Done and done
Oct 12th 2016
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      Thanks. I just didn't have the strength. nm
Oct 12th 2016
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yep
Oct 12th 2016
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One says 61% was female, the other says 61% was black female
Oct 12th 2016
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1st is a random tweet w/no source listed, 2nd is article
Oct 12th 2016
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someone on twitter pointed out that 12 Yrs a Slave was
Oct 12th 2016
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      Shhh. Don't use facts. Black women are petty and don't support our men
Oct 12th 2016
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           speaking of supporting our men...if black women DID boycott
Oct 12th 2016
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           Alot of black women did choose not see it because of the rape case.
Oct 12th 2016
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           grrr argh
Oct 12th 2016
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idc
Oct 12th 2016
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I don't think I've ever really entertained the idea of dating a white wo...
Oct 12th 2016
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I feel you on this...
Oct 12th 2016
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      Right now 90% of my grad school cohort is white women. I feel like I'm i...
Oct 12th 2016
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      no you don't - you got all dressed the fuck up for a date with a white
Oct 12th 2016
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           Your posts read like if Tyler Perry & Tariq Nasheed co-wrote a script
Oct 12th 2016
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           ...that was edited by Khalid Muhammad.
Oct 12th 2016
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           I hate when you do this.
Oct 12th 2016
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           he hates it too.
Oct 12th 2016
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                It's a bad knockoff of BuildingBlock's shtick.
Oct 12th 2016
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                     every one who doesn't agree with you all isn't a troll.
Oct 12th 2016
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                     no but you are a fucking troll ass punk bitch.
Oct 12th 2016
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                     Dude, leave her alone. Everyone should be left alone for who
Oct 12th 2016
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                          leave her alone? is she in danger? am i calling her a honky-loving bitch...
Oct 12th 2016
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                               i have nothing but disdain for you.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                    what's odd as fuck is your clear propensity for verbally antagonizing.
Oct 12th 2016
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                                         "I enjoy pushing people's buttons"- you
Oct 13th 2016
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                     that shit is never 'good'.
Oct 12th 2016
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                          does your anger and hated know no bounds? you're closer of a troll
Oct 12th 2016
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                               toward you? no.
Oct 12th 2016
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           I mean, those things aren't mutually exclusive.
Oct 12th 2016
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                your point - white woman on my couch offers me discomfort.
Oct 12th 2016
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So I actually DJ'd my first Black Bride - White Husband Wedding on Sat
Oct 12th 2016
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My brother in law is white
Oct 12th 2016
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      Ehhh...why did she get with him?
Oct 12th 2016
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           Obama babies... she is dark skin, my wife is lite skin
Oct 12th 2016
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                Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan, fuck!! They have kids too??
Oct 12th 2016
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                4 kids
Oct 12th 2016
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                So they're a perfect match is what you're saying...
Oct 12th 2016
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That ONE time I dated a white woman...
Oct 12th 2016
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That wasn't a date bruh
Oct 12th 2016
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Bruh, that was some dance mania Theo shit
Oct 12th 2016
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I can not disagree with you.
Oct 12th 2016
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Nigga what? Lmao...
Oct 12th 2016
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fam I am dying laughing
Oct 12th 2016
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lol, how did I miss this?
Oct 13th 2016
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cold blooded
Oct 13th 2016
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Y'all niggas falling for the Kwesi hook line and sinker
Oct 12th 2016
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who's falling for what?
Oct 12th 2016
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thig guy is a self admitted troll, but im the one with the bad rep.
Oct 12th 2016
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cry about it.
Oct 12th 2016
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I miss the "k"
Oct 12th 2016
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"Deport them" - Sean Paul
Oct 12th 2016
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you lames can have this shit.
Oct 12th 2016
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      correct. I dont identify with anything you perceive to be "cool"
Oct 12th 2016
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           what're you typing about? i think moms are cool. especially loving ones
Oct 12th 2016
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                Im very okay with being lame to you
Oct 13th 2016
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i came back just to laugh at this.
Oct 13th 2016
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After all these years, "Interacial Dating" is still a #1 jam.
Oct 12th 2016
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it really isnt. these sad blacks just want to compare black men &
Oct 12th 2016
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Instead of admitting they have poor taste and date shitty dudes.
Oct 12th 2016
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We still putting each other down over it, that's the problem
Oct 12th 2016
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and very smart brothers does it again =)
Oct 12th 2016
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exactly.
Oct 12th 2016
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This post demonstrates so well why this place is the way it is now.
Oct 13th 2016
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you date white dudes or nah?
Oct 13th 2016
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Don't answer. NM
Oct 13th 2016
To keep it 100, the OP seems like a rehashed version of this:
Oct 13th 2016
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she said she skipped the line... lmao
Oct 13th 2016
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I'm sorry I didn't make the post you wanted
Oct 13th 2016
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im sorry we didn't respond the way you wanted.
Oct 13th 2016
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ok, NONE of what you wrote applies to me.
Oct 13th 2016
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Cool it, stretch. It's basic math.
Oct 13th 2016
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      i suspect he and others only skimmed your post
Oct 13th 2016
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      I pray his reading comprehension really isn't this poor
Oct 13th 2016
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           that makes sense.
Oct 13th 2016
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      these are just assholes, being assholes
Oct 13th 2016
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OKP = 4chan/Reddit for black nerds.
Oct 13th 2016
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      if you hate it so much, why don't you leave?
Oct 13th 2016
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           that's what racists say to blacks about America
Oct 13th 2016
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                stop. just stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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                     nah, dont torment people and ask them why they dont leave
Oct 13th 2016
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Nah, she put it up pretty plainly, y'all niggas went poast
Oct 13th 2016
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      some black women wouldn't even dream of going on a date with
Oct 13th 2016
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      i really wish you would stfu
Oct 13th 2016
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      Post this on Twitter or FB and reply here with the reactions that you ge...
Oct 13th 2016
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      They want an echo chamber bruh
Oct 13th 2016
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      I find this interesting taking a bigger look at the boards
Oct 13th 2016
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           No one on this boards alludes to being a sexual predator
Oct 13th 2016
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                Y'all haven't seen The Little Rascals?
Oct 13th 2016
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                YOU DATED A WHITE NIGGA FOR FOUR MONTHS???
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                It's not that simple tho
Oct 13th 2016
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      YEP
Oct 13th 2016
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      OKP = a septic tank dominated by clowns.
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      don't forget about the white apologists.
Oct 13th 2016
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      we're too sensitive...
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           Sensitive, nah. I agree how it was always ignorant tho
Oct 13th 2016
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           everything you just said
Oct 13th 2016
           Intolerant?
Oct 13th 2016
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           Exactly
Oct 13th 2016
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it's way worse than it's ever been
Oct 13th 2016
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shitty lives? cut the crap.
Oct 13th 2016
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      yes, cunty men with shitty lives
Oct 13th 2016
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      inflicting misery? i make a boatload of jokes.
Oct 13th 2016
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           nigger, stfu.
Oct 13th 2016
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           you are blinded by rage.
Oct 13th 2016
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           Fool, I'm over here laughing.
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           finally!
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                ...at your ho ass.
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                     The real problem with okp^^^
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                     you too.
Oct 13th 2016
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                          Sit yo Braveheart ass down
Oct 13th 2016
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                               Fuck you, ho.
Oct 13th 2016
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                                    Objection
Oct 13th 2016
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                                         Still not stopping. That's called "going".
Oct 13th 2016
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                     ok. feel better now?
Oct 13th 2016
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                          I don't read your shit, dummie.
Oct 13th 2016
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                               you don't read my shit - but notice all the vile shit i type to people?
Oct 13th 2016
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                                    *yawns* *farts* fuck you.
Oct 13th 2016
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                                         pointless. call me if you have any questions.
Oct 13th 2016
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           there's a whole bunch of posters id say this to
Oct 13th 2016
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           I havent called you out of your name
Oct 13th 2016
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                you've called me a coon. repeatedly.
Oct 13th 2016
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                     when the hate dont work they start telling lies
Oct 13th 2016
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                     The same people wishing you death are claiming they never
Oct 13th 2016
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                          he even loves calling me 'nigger'. i refuse to search, but i know it's t...
Oct 13th 2016
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                          you're deflecting to get more replies
Oct 13th 2016
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                          deflecting? what are you doing when you decide to call me nigger?
Oct 13th 2016
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                               new sig.
Oct 13th 2016
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                                    exactly. and still, you're an ingrate.
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                                         Can I call too?
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                                              don't be afraid.
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                          Bruh, some okps said their shit doesn't stink
Oct 13th 2016
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                               You said this needs to stop. Why aren't you stopping?
Oct 13th 2016
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                          You said this needs to stop. So.....stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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      This shit needs to stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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           So stop. You're a contributor. If it needs to stop......stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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           O_0
Oct 13th 2016
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                You just said this needs to stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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^^^^
Oct 13th 2016
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we need a *soul wince* gif, like the crying indian
Oct 13th 2016
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* *Do The Right Thing OKP* *
Oct 13th 2016
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Lmao... bruh, even when I do he won't stop
Oct 13th 2016
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You're not stopping. you said it needs to stop.
Oct 13th 2016
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See, this dude is pressed as fuck
Oct 13th 2016
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      You said this needs to stop. Why aren't you stopping?
Oct 13th 2016
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      Of course....
Oct 13th 2016
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           Don't dignify him with a response, let's just talk about/around him!
Oct 13th 2016
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lol. y'all gotta stop playing on my phone like a bunch of kids.
Oct 13th 2016
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RE: lol. y'all gotta stop playing on my phone like a bunch of kids.
Oct 13th 2016
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Why on earth would you do that?
Oct 13th 2016
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      ladies and gentlemen, put your attention toward the second ring!
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           I just want to talk. Can we talk?
Oct 13th 2016
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                sure. we're all adults here.
Oct 13th 2016
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                     What should we discuss?
Oct 13th 2016
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                          individualism vs collectivism. which do you think is 'better'?
Oct 13th 2016
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                               How did you ever get my number?
Oct 13th 2016
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                                    damn. you still suck at this. NEXT!
Oct 13th 2016
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                                         Hmmm. Seems like a perfectly reasonable question
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