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 nah yo |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 1
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 right. and it leaves space for the kids to come between the couple. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 2
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| Dude that makes no sense at all. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 74
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| did you call 'shotgun' this time? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 78
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| more than likely |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 108
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| I hate the way family is discussed on here |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 3
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 ^^wisdom^^ |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 5
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| family = Mad Max-style competition for attention/affection. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 10
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 I C U |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 24
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| RE: I hate the way family is discussed on here |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 52
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| RE: I hate the way family is discussed on here |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 106
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| agreed, it almost scares me that people think this way |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 143
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| sticks and stones break bones but thoughts will fuck you up. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 144
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| zackly. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 145
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| (having neither spouse nor kids) that thinking seems unnecessary |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 4
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| selfish people please stay single |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 6
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| or just don't have kids....lol |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 8
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| being selfish doesn't go too well in a relationship either. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 9
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| Very True... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 19
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| both... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 22
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| It's funny that people get characterized as selfish for not wanting kids |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 132
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| nah that's not what happened there. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 146
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| yeah, that's what happened there. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 148
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| yup |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 151
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| it's all one family, and that should be anyone's first priority |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 7
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| would Machiavelli agree? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 11
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| who cares |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 13
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| i think his family does. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 15
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| haha, yeah i guess they probably cared |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 18
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| if push comes to shove, we can always manufacture another kid. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 12
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| right. that's how Henry Ford saw the issue and i agree. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 16
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| It's not a binary equation. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 14
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| polygamy is still illegal/unrecognized. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 17
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| I'm saying there are more than two absolute answers. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 30
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| it ain't no fun if the homies can't have none. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 33
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| if not divorce, a very unfulfilling marriage. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 20
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| i think marriage is understood as something that will be miserable |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 28
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| ??? I don't understand the point |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 112
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| Do gay guys have the bond with child like breeders? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 21
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| its a delicate balance i would assume |
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Aug 05th 2014 |
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| kids don't need to be involved in grown folks business. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 25
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| well, babies are more important than anything ever created. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 26
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| ^ |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 27
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| Yes. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 23
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| the sad thing is people take pride in putting their kids first |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 29
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| LoL |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 32
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| it's an observation and clearly it makes you mad. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 37
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| Yes becuz you have no idea until you are faced with those decisions |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 40
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| Are we talking about exceptions or in general tho? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 42
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| i think kids should be in front of the spouse in pictures. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 43
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| haha |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 46
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| LOL. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 47
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| I dont think gays should be able to adopt. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 48
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| ^^^ MAD |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 67
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| everyone had been doing such a good job at ignoring him...smh |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 71
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| Thats cause this milkshake is HARD to resist. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 75
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| I just got here and scrolled down to the juice of the post :-( |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 77
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| worst than IMO: |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 80
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| *updates database* |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 85
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| ^^^^^double barrows |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 87
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| STFU! |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 50
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| Depends on age of child. Minor child, yes. Adult child, no. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 45
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| lol |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 41
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| We are arguing because this doesn't make sense |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 110
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| how do you and your husband handle that? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 134
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| easy to say, hard to do. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 31
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| it must be a tough balancing act. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 35
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| adult kids sure |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 34
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| 1 year olds are pretty stupid. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 36
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| Why dont God allow man-to-man to create a offspring? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 38
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| Children are typiclly affected GREATLY by divorce. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 39
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| yessir! |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 60
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| having kids is like having an affair that your spouse is OK with |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 44
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| Warren Jeffs agrees. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 49
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| that's a very good analogy b/c neglected spouses rarely feel |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 54
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| it's a great analogy b/c it allows us to think of our kids as sex object... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 56
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| RE: spouse > kids. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 51
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| any kid who doesn't save his drowning mother should be grounded. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 53
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| you can make another kid... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 55
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| plus kids make great pallbearers at the dead spouse's funeral. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 57
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| no the kids would read the eulogy |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 95
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| kids can't read, silly! |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 115
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| Yes. I've never seen the lopsidedness of relationships in full |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 58
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| and like an oxygen mask sometimes the marital bag doesn't inflate. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 59
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| Bwahaha! I <3 u. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 62
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| How many kids you got? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 66
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| this may be the man's wishes |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 84
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| I'm friends with a successful black woman writer on FB |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 99
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| kid> baby daddy |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 61
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| yes b/c the kids can be more easily manipulated. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 63
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| Who hurt you? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 73
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| i hurt myself when i fell off my bicycle. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 76
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| Did your mom manipulate you into feeling better |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 89
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| yes. yes she did! and now i just... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 90
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| and where was that dad of yours |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 129
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| on top uh me. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 135
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| I laffed. u a sick fuck you know that? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 150
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| you gotta be fuckin kidding-- |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 64
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| yeah. everybody knows kids are more important b/c their |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 65
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| lol this site is the worst on family shit |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 68
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| i'm sure Joseph Kennedy and John Rockefeller put their kids first. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 70
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| Bullshit equation |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 69
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| it is a bullshit equation b/c it's missing an equal sign. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 72
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| Can only say |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 101
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| it's unfair to look from the outside when |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 114
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| no one should go neglected |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 79
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| kids like being tag-teamed. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 82
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| Who would yall beat first, your spouse or your kids? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 81
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| sidenote: i always wonder how many women beaters and |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 83
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| First Pets, then Children, then spouse. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 86
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| dick >>>> kids >>>> spouse |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 88
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| damn i missed this. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 97
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| its more likely to be illegal to beat your spouse sooooo... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 91
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| I love to see how people interpret things like this. Thanks. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 92
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| few people think they're neglecting their spouse though... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 104
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| I'm almost positive childless longterm couples have more sex |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 93
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| Indeed, cuz she can be like "OMG WHERE DA KIDS?" |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 94
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| ^^^Ayelet Waldman |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 96
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| Exactly what came to my mind |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 102
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| i can't believe this was 10 years ago. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 103
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| time gets faster as you get older |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 131
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| Full disclosure: I really dislike Ayelet Waldman |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 111
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| her kids might be sexier than her husband but she's blind to it. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 116
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| Full disclosure: I don't disagree |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 130
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| ^ |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 136
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| Credibility issues of the author aside.... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 137
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| God, Spouse, Kids |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 98
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| you love me less than Jesus |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 100
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| Um, no. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 105
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| To me, if its all about her kids she just married me for my sperm |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 107
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| she might have also married you for your hands. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 117
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| lol. I love you. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 109
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| YT dogs > spouse > kids. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 113
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| what about Indian dogs? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 118
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| depends. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 119
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| ^as it should be |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 124
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| RE: spouse > kids. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 120
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| but how can something optional be put in front of smthg mandatory? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 121
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| b/c it's illegal for the kids to put out and illegal for the spouse not ... |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 122
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| that was a serious question i asked but aight den sir. lol. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 123
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| ain't nobody talking about neglecting anyone. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 125
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| yeah neglect was the wrong word. but as a parent i cant see |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 126
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| i bet you can't see lots of things. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 127
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| perhaps. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 128
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| lol |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 133
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| Yep. I love it when SoWhat rouses rabble. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 138
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| Yep, it was set up EXCELLENTLY. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 139
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| I like to keep my options open |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 140
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| Naked & Afraid has changed the way i evaluate men. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 141
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| I was hoping you meant |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 152
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| lmao - Y'all are a mess. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 142
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| That's like saying "Quarterback >>> receivers." |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 147
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| yes. and QBs are better than receivers and more important to the team. |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 149
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| Aren't receivers "wide"? |
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Aug 05th 2014 | 153
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| no. |
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Aug 06th 2014 | 154
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| well that sure settles the matter. |
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Aug 06th 2014 | 157
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| I'm glad that me & wifey havent had kids yet. |
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Aug 06th 2014 | 155
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| i'm glad too. |
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Aug 06th 2014 | 156
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