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NikaMandela
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"Dating someone you consider unattractive (yet you're attracted to them)"


          

thats my new shit, lol.

i think I'm done with dudes that are on par with me on terms of looks and thinking about taking on the below average/average range.

cuz i feel like you know you really like someone when you first see them and be like NAH but after hanging out with them you come around to OK, OK, YEAH.

and while i know that ugly dudes can be just as grimy as good looking dudes, at least when its a wrap you can think to yourself, "you was ugly anyway."

one of my closest friends said the key is finding someone unattractive enough to not get a great deal of attention/competition but attractive enough for you to want to be with them.

i mean when it comes down to it, looks matters very little in the grand scheme of things. if someone takes care of themselves and is healthy, and if they're good to you and can give you what you need rather than what you want, then looks should only be the icing on the cake.

this post is inspired by seeing a pic of dude from my last situationship looking super pretty (and being tickled by it) after hanging out with my new prospect who aint pretty at all.

  

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Dating someone you consider unattractive (yet you're attracted to them) [View all] , NikaMandela, Tue Sep-15-15 12:02 PM
 
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Sep 15th 2015
1
gay men are ridiculously more attractive than straight men.
Sep 15th 2015
5
      *eyes roll*
Sep 15th 2015
12
           sorry you have it so good.
Sep 15th 2015
13
Damn.
Sep 15th 2015
2
oh so you bout to cash out??
Sep 15th 2015
3
lol yeah pretty much
Sep 15th 2015
8
You was ugly any way doesn't work for dudes when they tryna holla
Sep 15th 2015
4
"you was ugly anyway" is not for them. it's for me.
Sep 15th 2015
10
Nope. Not worth it.
Sep 15th 2015
18
RE: You was ugly any way doesn't work for dudes when they tryna holla
Sep 15th 2015
11
      ikr.. damn
Sep 15th 2015
19
           That was not a diss.
Sep 15th 2015
21
                saying you was ugly an implies it ain't gonna work out.
Sep 15th 2015
23
                     Nigga what?
Sep 15th 2015
25
                          you only say that shit when you get dumped bruh
Sep 15th 2015
30
                               That was my point
Sep 15th 2015
32
                                    this exchange was far too long
Sep 15th 2015
34
                                         Some people have to go to tutoring after class...
Sep 15th 2015
37
                                              one day it will all make sense
Sep 15th 2015
40
                                                   can i borrow a dollar?
Sep 15th 2015
50
If only every woman was that logical...
Sep 15th 2015
6
for a woman thats not new
Sep 15th 2015
7
both scenarios are the norm, one just gets talked about more
Sep 15th 2015
17
nah
Sep 15th 2015
64
      you've NEVER seen the busted chick with a handsome dude???
Sep 15th 2015
71
           i'm talking what is built into our institutions
Sep 15th 2015
76
                so the decent looking bruh with the hamplanet white broad aint' real?
Sep 15th 2015
81
                i see plenty of black dudes with busted white women
Sep 15th 2015
92
                     shit happens so much it's a goddamned meme at this point
Sep 15th 2015
104
                          I'm from Pittsburgh..shit is awful
Sep 16th 2015
116
                               y'all get back to me when ball players, rappers, politicians
Sep 16th 2015
126
                               due to sheer numbers, the rappers, actors, ball players, etc are
Sep 16th 2015
127
                               dummy they are the example you fools aim for
Sep 16th 2015
134
                                    if that's the case then the women are YOUR examples
Sep 17th 2015
146
                               whaaaaaaat the fuck does that even mean?
Sep 16th 2015
130
                                    yall the ones posting w emotion
Sep 16th 2015
133
                                         Hush
Sep 16th 2015
142
                               LOL man Pittsburgh is nuts. When I first traveled there I was like WTF
Sep 16th 2015
128
                                    shit was horrible
Sep 16th 2015
131
                Denzels wife used to get shitted on hard
Sep 15th 2015
91
                     yep
Sep 15th 2015
93
this is why men buy nice cars and bottle service
Sep 15th 2015
26
Gross Generalization: I find Black Women Care Far more about looks than
Sep 15th 2015
9
I think other races can just overlook it
Sep 15th 2015
16
Yeah well that's my point. It's about prioritizing qualities in a mate.
Sep 15th 2015
22
      I think its more about class tho
Sep 15th 2015
28
           Definitely a class thing. You are right. I see it among all types.
Sep 15th 2015
53
damn is this shit on a black woman month? or decade?
Sep 15th 2015
27
Not really a criticism. It's a difference.
Sep 15th 2015
33
Millenium, motherfucker.
Sep 15th 2015
38
      can y'all give us a calendar date to check back in
Sep 15th 2015
59
           January 1, in the year of Andre Benjamin.
Sep 15th 2015
83
Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhh.......
Sep 15th 2015
29
Definitely an Age thing. I've got cornball black friends who swear they
Sep 15th 2015
36
I saw this FINE latina with a frumpy white dude
Sep 15th 2015
39
      https://bobbiblogger.files.wordpress.com/2012/01/study.jpg
Sep 15th 2015
42
      LMAO
Sep 15th 2015
45
      lol
Sep 15th 2015
51
      hahaha
Sep 15th 2015
70
      awesome
Sep 17th 2015
155
      lulz
Sep 18th 2015
159
      funny 'cause me and the missus do this all the time
Sep 15th 2015
52
      everyone should really quit this bamma shit
Sep 15th 2015
62
      nigga shut up... lol
Sep 15th 2015
72
      nope. it's bamma shit
Sep 15th 2015
98
           thats fake deep bruh.. i can dig it.
Sep 15th 2015
102
      i have to agree here
Sep 16th 2015
114
      White dudes got it easy, I said this a year ago and got roasted.
Sep 15th 2015
65
           lowest standards to meet in the western world
Sep 15th 2015
105
Black woman here and I agree
Sep 15th 2015
68
      at least you're honest about it.
Sep 15th 2015
88
      i dont think this is true at all
Sep 15th 2015
108
           Yeah I think I am going to back off my earlier stated opinion
Sep 17th 2015
150
      What kinda numbers we talking here?
Sep 24th 2015
169
this post went from shallow to not shallow to ?
Sep 15th 2015
14
I got a chick like this but I think she is relegated to the sidepiece ro...
Sep 15th 2015
15
If nobody else does I 4real give u props for your VERY open
Sep 15th 2015
20
i am a taurus
Sep 15th 2015
24
Good Luck...sincerely
Sep 15th 2015
31
      damn bro.. I rarely see people guess right with signs
Sep 15th 2015
43
           shot in the dark lol...and i'm normally a 2 time guesser
Sep 15th 2015
49
really???
Sep 15th 2015
48
Nah. It should be..."date someone YOU consider attractive that most
Sep 15th 2015
35
I've dated women who i didn't find attractive at first, but bc of their
Sep 15th 2015
41
how someone else gonna pick for you?
Sep 15th 2015
44
Christopher Columbus-ing, aaaah, how capitvating Chris Columbus-ing
Sep 15th 2015
46
BARRILES DOBLE
Sep 15th 2015
47
ugly dudes are annoying as hell too
Sep 15th 2015
54
yeah and lets be real most people are ugly
Sep 15th 2015
55
^^^^
Sep 15th 2015
57
RE: ugly dudes are annoying as hell too
Sep 15th 2015
60
and once women see him with a fine woman...
Sep 15th 2015
73
Good to read that you are making choices
Sep 15th 2015
56
I see what you did there
Sep 15th 2015
74
      Lol
Sep 15th 2015
82
           nigga waited 3 weeks to move his bishop into checkmate
Sep 15th 2015
96
This sounds like a rationalization to settle.
Sep 15th 2015
58
not really
Sep 15th 2015
84
Whole post reeks of hubris.
Sep 15th 2015
61
Sounds perfectly rational to me.
Sep 15th 2015
63
looks don't really determine a guy's level though...
Sep 15th 2015
66
damb... you kinda right
Sep 15th 2015
79
nah every guy that hits on me aint on my level
Sep 15th 2015
85
      they think they are and if you date them you basically agree...
Sep 15th 2015
107
           agreed, but i dont date them.
Sep 16th 2015
138
Post up a pic. I need to see these look you supposedly have.
Sep 15th 2015
67
this may be the answer to her dating woes
Sep 15th 2015
75
opposites can attract.. LOL
Sep 15th 2015
95
my IG is in my sig
Sep 15th 2015
86
      I see that we are IG Friend.
Sep 15th 2015
94
      Beautiful chocolate woman. Very nice smile. Yeah I was prowling LOL
Sep 15th 2015
97
           Hey dude. Back off... LOL
Sep 15th 2015
100
                LOL, I'll have to live vicariously through you
Sep 15th 2015
106
                     Man you better know that,.,,LOL
Sep 16th 2015
112
wow.
Sep 15th 2015
69
wait, so what makes you above average in the looks dept.
Sep 15th 2015
77
my mama and daddy
Sep 15th 2015
87
      that aint enough
Sep 15th 2015
90
           my mama and daddy as in my genes
Sep 15th 2015
99
                what if dude is thinking the same thing as you?
Sep 15th 2015
101
                     honestly i really dont care
Sep 15th 2015
103
                          stop lying... this whole post is about you feeling like you look better
Sep 16th 2015
132
                               lol SIT THE FUCK DOWN yo
Sep 16th 2015
137
                                    You always say that after posting your dating woes...
Sep 16th 2015
141
                                         because its true.
Sep 16th 2015
143
Never.
Sep 15th 2015
78
why they gotta be ugly though?
Sep 15th 2015
80
as long as he is appealing to u then u good. the older i get the more
Sep 15th 2015
89
I feel sorry for the 'ugly' dude you end up with...
Sep 16th 2015
109
Why not just apply this to all people?
Sep 16th 2015
110
Ugly kids are forever
Sep 16th 2015
111
i don't understand that rationale...
Sep 16th 2015
113
how do you bounce back from an ugly dude playing you?
Sep 16th 2015
115
become a lesbian
Sep 16th 2015
117
4-step plan:
Sep 16th 2015
118
exactly like that's the LAST thing you want...
Sep 16th 2015
124
This becomes more and more apparent with each post she makes....
Sep 16th 2015
122
lol at the dogpile attempt
Sep 16th 2015
136
my dating life is actually pretty awesome
Sep 16th 2015
135
      wat.
Sep 17th 2015
149
      i believe you
Sep 17th 2015
152
           what does any of this even mean?
Sep 17th 2015
153
           It means there are lonely fucked up people in relationships
Sep 17th 2015
156
                Im not overly mean or cruel to anyone on here anymore, but yeah
Sep 18th 2015
157
                     agreed
Sep 18th 2015
158
                     having a good dating life makes me OK with being single
Sep 18th 2015
161
                     i can't fuck with anything you typed here
Sep 18th 2015
160
                     yay.
Sep 18th 2015
162
                     no offfense but
Sep 23rd 2015
168
                          none taken. I was just going off what I see posted
Sep 24th 2015
172
                          damn you autocorrect!
Sep 25th 2015
173
           I would believe her too if every thread I read on here
Sep 19th 2015
166
                i feel like you doing way too much tho
Sep 19th 2015
167
"you was ugly anyway" never works
Sep 16th 2015
119
RE: "you was ugly anyway" never works
Sep 16th 2015
120
it works in the sense that if that situation ends, a person has hope
Sep 16th 2015
121
Because it still places all the value on his looks...
Sep 18th 2015
163
Overall the strategy is fine
Sep 16th 2015
123
you be chasin them pretty boys go on and settle down wit an average..
Sep 16th 2015
125
re: situationships....why do we do these?
Sep 16th 2015
129
I hope things work out happily for you
Sep 16th 2015
139
Thank you. It will :-)
Sep 16th 2015
140
Also, you can't find someone unattractive and be attracted to them
Sep 17th 2015
144
I was thinking about starting a single ladies book club
Sep 17th 2015
145
TeamNika
Sep 17th 2015
147
But are you really about that life?
Sep 17th 2015
148
kinda funny story
Sep 17th 2015
151
lol
Sep 18th 2015
164
For me, it's only a small amount of women who became "attractive"
Sep 18th 2015
165
An ugly dude with personality and/or money can still pull though
Sep 17th 2015
154
the insecurities in this post... *smh*
Sep 24th 2015
170
I date whoever I think looks good
Sep 24th 2015
171

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