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SimplyHannah
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"You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it."


  

          

Or even dating for that matter, ass need to be focused on something else.


Tis all.


  

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You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it. [View all] , SimplyHannah, Mon Sep-21-15 01:02 PM
 
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Sep 21st 2015
1
You shouldn't be dating if you're not procreating.
Sep 21st 2015
2
LOL
Sep 21st 2015
10
^ broke.
Sep 21st 2015
12
      Married with no kids.
Sep 21st 2015
20
What exactly does this mean?
Sep 21st 2015
3
Priorities
Sep 21st 2015
11
      dog, it's a 'date'. they're not opening joint accounts.
Sep 21st 2015
34
.
Sep 21st 2015
4
When I was at my brokest, I wasn't trying to date
Sep 21st 2015
5
pretty much
Sep 21st 2015
9
And I think that's fine as long as you're honest.
Sep 21st 2015
32
      good conversation usually reveals a lot in dudes
Sep 21st 2015
40
How much money does dating cost?
Sep 21st 2015
6
I mean if you have to ask then........
Sep 21st 2015
8
      then........what?
Sep 21st 2015
54
      Lol
Sep 21st 2015
64
smh
Sep 21st 2015
7
White women don't care
Sep 21st 2015
13
They really don't have to worry because usually white men hold their own
Sep 21st 2015
15
No, I'm talking about the black loving white women
Sep 21st 2015
17
oh the lower hanging fruit...
Sep 21st 2015
29
Those women don't expect anything other than dick
Sep 21st 2015
55
SOME women don't care
Sep 22nd 2015
102
Where is that? The ones that don't care are usually the ones that only
Sep 22nd 2015
119
This advice is just for men though, right? #WARZ
Sep 21st 2015
14
lol....
Sep 21st 2015
16
If they can't afford to atleast pay for their half
Sep 21st 2015
22
damn, a nigga can't even take a broke broad out on the town?
Sep 21st 2015
24
      basically, what's half of zero.
Sep 21st 2015
28
      I mean if that's what you took from that fine..
Sep 21st 2015
35
this is far from advice.
Sep 21st 2015
23
im tired of dating broke niggas, too.
Sep 21st 2015
18
Eddie taught me
Sep 21st 2015
19
broke people got needs too
Sep 21st 2015
21
yeah-- money.
Sep 22nd 2015
126
dates could be free, but if you're unemployed or in deep debt
Sep 21st 2015
25
^ gets it
Sep 21st 2015
30
you expect people to apply for jobs their every waking moment?
Sep 21st 2015
33
no. there should be time allotted to cook healthy meals and exercise
Sep 21st 2015
37
I agree
Sep 21st 2015
42
I agree, but it goes both ways
Sep 21st 2015
26
we oughta think, before we throw good love away. (c) marvin gaye
Sep 21st 2015
27
worked for thurgood jenkins
Sep 21st 2015
31
who?
Sep 21st 2015
39
      half baked
Sep 21st 2015
44
i know that im aging out of this convo but this is dumb.
Sep 21st 2015
36
i couldnt date a women unless she made 6 figures
Sep 21st 2015
Hannah banana, I'm kinda on page with you on this one.
Sep 21st 2015
38
This question might illustrate how I've been single way too long but...
Sep 21st 2015
41
Agreed. Gotta pay to play.
Sep 21st 2015
43
disagree, date someone on your level...
Sep 21st 2015
45
pretty much...2 broke people should have the same expectations
Sep 21st 2015
46
      there's a huge population fucking and making babies
Sep 21st 2015
48
I agree. M.O.B.
Sep 21st 2015
47
YOU really shouldn't be advising anyone on this issue.
Sep 21st 2015
49
It's a valid point. Now give me my props and call it a day.
Sep 21st 2015
50
      It's completely invalid. And foolish.
Sep 21st 2015
53
           ^ too liberal to see the light of day
Sep 21st 2015
57
                ^ too foolish to see beyond her navel.
Sep 21st 2015
59
                     yes because God forbid you try and get your shit together
Sep 21st 2015
62
                          Good for you!
Sep 21st 2015
66
                               Morals are good sometimes.
Sep 21st 2015
67
                                    I wouldn't know as I clearly don't have any.
Sep 21st 2015
83
                                    yes, precisely.
Sep 21st 2015
85
                                         sure. i am who you say i am.
Sep 21st 2015
86
                                    Morals huh?
Sep 22nd 2015
128
I'm a believer that broke people should not be dating
Sep 21st 2015
51
you backwards.
Sep 21st 2015
52
      how so?
Sep 21st 2015
61
Thru history it's mostly rich men that have lied with painted whores
Sep 21st 2015
56
Sounds like #winning to me.
Sep 21st 2015
60
      #morals
Sep 21st 2015
69
           lol
Sep 22nd 2015
121
           lmao
Oct 02nd 2015
216
"You can lose money chasing women..."
Sep 21st 2015
58
how much?
Sep 21st 2015
63
agree
Sep 21st 2015
65
meanwhile, my wife and I had our first date the day I quit my job
Sep 21st 2015
68
http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x
Sep 21st 2015
70
why in the hell is this so funny? i wasn't ready
Sep 21st 2015
71
i'm weakened, bruh
Sep 21st 2015
95
      lolz
Sep 22nd 2015
111
RE: http://tiny.cc/n2wo3x
Sep 22nd 2015
148
You're not yourself, have a snickers.
Sep 21st 2015
77
I'm very much myself, and I like you as a person, but you're ridiculou...
Sep 21st 2015
79
      Im here to upset the establishment.
Sep 21st 2015
81
      weird response to a great story
Sep 23rd 2015
153
jeez
Sep 22nd 2015
113
Your staying employed was as good as having a stable job
Sep 22nd 2015
130
      Oh for sure, but that gets into the meat of my point.
Sep 23rd 2015
189
           Wow man, motivational speaking might could be in your future.
Sep 24th 2015
191
bird mentality
Sep 21st 2015
72
" Bird " is so 1996
Sep 21st 2015
78
^^^^^^has a mean MMMMFLAKALACKA
Sep 21st 2015
80
It's actually a responsible mentality
Sep 22nd 2015
101
you really shouldn't be eating if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
73
you really shouldn't be having fun if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
74
you really shouldn't sleep if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
75
you really shouldn't be living if you can't afford it.
Sep 21st 2015
76
Lol damn fam
Sep 21st 2015
82
Smh.
Sep 21st 2015
87
nah it really is
Sep 21st 2015
96
      It really isn't
Sep 22nd 2015
105
           RE: It really isn't
Sep 22nd 2015
118
You need food, water and oxygen to live
Sep 22nd 2015
104
NIGGA *throws penalty flag for excessive everything*
Sep 21st 2015
88
i shouldn't have to type it - but that wasn't directed at her, directly.
Sep 21st 2015
90
can she cook though?
Sep 22nd 2015
103
      bwaahahaa
Sep 22nd 2015
114
      Man.....y'all. LMAO
Sep 22nd 2015
144
Funniest thing I've read all day.
Sep 21st 2015
97
what an idiotic thing to say
Sep 21st 2015
84
you right, priorities are for idiots.
Sep 21st 2015
91
      lol @ not dating (or dating) being a priority
Sep 21st 2015
93
We can apply this logic to a lot of stuff.
Sep 21st 2015
89
All that stuff is logical to me to be quite honest.
Sep 21st 2015
92
      Not to get too deep but Maslow's hierarchy of needs covers everything
Sep 21st 2015
94
           I can dig it
Sep 22nd 2015
109
This post went post for all the wrong reasons... ROTFL
Sep 21st 2015
98
the whole point of this thread was to show off her teedees
Sep 22nd 2015
99
See post 81
Sep 22nd 2015
108
Avi went from Toni Braxton to tiDDay jackson...
Sep 22nd 2015
122
You may be upsetting your lower back even more.
Sep 22nd 2015
142
lmao damn
Sep 22nd 2015
115
rolling on the floor lemon!
Sep 22nd 2015
110
      lol
Sep 22nd 2015
134
      .
Sep 22nd 2015
135
I don't disagree at all.
Sep 22nd 2015
100
ppl still want sex and sexual relationships
Sep 22nd 2015
129
      True. People want a lot of things that are bad ideas to pursue.
Sep 23rd 2015
151
           0% of men are staying celibate until they're in the 30s
Sep 23rd 2015
166
                If you say they can make it on minimum wage, then they can afford
Sep 23rd 2015
190
This is possibly the most unromantic post I've seen. lol
Sep 22nd 2015
106
lol i'm sayin
Sep 22nd 2015
107
I"m such a square for this love shit.
Sep 22nd 2015
127
Romance was manufactured on Madison Avenue in the 40's/50's
Sep 22nd 2015
131
      no it wasn't. the diamond engagement ring industry was tho.
Sep 22nd 2015
133
so if my job is to support the financial health of our dating
Sep 22nd 2015
112
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.
Sep 22nd 2015
116
This post isnt gender specific
Sep 22nd 2015
132
if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something
Sep 22nd 2015
117
RE: if waited until we were "ready" or "able" to do something
Sep 22nd 2015
149
I disagree, but we have 100x posts shaming women, so...
Sep 22nd 2015
120
Grade-A trolling, would read post again.
Sep 22nd 2015
123
she not trolling. she legitimately tired of fucking with broke boys.
Sep 22nd 2015
124
      You know nothing about me.
Sep 22nd 2015
136
           watch me not care.
Sep 22nd 2015
137
                You tried to size her up based on her posts, you obviously care
Sep 22nd 2015
138
                almost, i dont care about being right or wrong re: 'knowing her'.
Sep 22nd 2015
139
                     I guess. Beyond trying to feel smart, what do you get out of all that?
Sep 22nd 2015
141
                          dude, just tell me to get lost.
Sep 22nd 2015
143
                          He just wants some attention.
Sep 22nd 2015
147
                SILENTOO!
Sep 22nd 2015
140
                You're pressed as fuck.
Sep 22nd 2015
146
respectfully, I disagree.
Sep 22nd 2015
125
I thought this post was made because of the responses in the "$7.50"
Sep 22nd 2015
145
women should also stop giving them casual sex
Sep 22nd 2015
150
^^^^DONT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN
Sep 23rd 2015
152
OOP
Sep 23rd 2015
154
OOP
Sep 23rd 2015
155
I kinda agree. But ...
Sep 23rd 2015
156
or bc they like hard dick.
Sep 23rd 2015
157
      Sure
Sep 23rd 2015
159
           'some' chicks cry over this. 'some' chicks cry over that.
Sep 23rd 2015
163
           I broke a nail earlier today
Sep 23rd 2015
165
                gel or acrylic?
Sep 23rd 2015
167
                     Dont ask unless youre paying for it to get fixed
Sep 23rd 2015
169
                          *unsubscribe
Sep 23rd 2015
170
                               LoL
Sep 23rd 2015
175
                               LOL
Sep 23rd 2015
182
           so they would be crying whether or not they had sex bc they
Sep 23rd 2015
164
who still talks about women 'giving sex' in 2015?
Sep 23rd 2015
158
      this post keeps on giving. not sex. but something else
Sep 23rd 2015
160
      lol
Sep 23rd 2015
161
      women SHOULD have sex because they want to have sex.
Sep 23rd 2015
168
      lol you are no better.
Sep 23rd 2015
171
           what'll really blow your mind is that's the same thing MizClayton typed.
Sep 23rd 2015
173
           lol true
Oct 02nd 2015
217
           Hello
Sep 23rd 2015
184
      oh stop, you know what she meant.....don't lawyer the poast
Sep 23rd 2015
176
      And don't nanny me.
Sep 23rd 2015
183
      foh PC policing my shit
Oct 01st 2015
193
           ^^^^^ lawd GEEZUS, please preach that good gospel
Oct 01st 2015
194
           FOH using outdated bullshit language
Oct 02nd 2015
220
I dont agree totally but you should have a plan and be creative.
Sep 23rd 2015
162
^^^ yup. some things you should be/do whether you have $ or not
Sep 23rd 2015
172
      pretty much..even if you are in relationship or married
Sep 23rd 2015
174
           $$ doesnt mean ready. CLEARLY.
Sep 23rd 2015
178
                Yall are veering off into the dysfunctional to make the point tho...
Oct 02nd 2015
213
everyone should just do them & make love
Sep 23rd 2015
177
on the real i think this adds to the degeneracy of blacks.
Sep 23rd 2015
179
Nigga said getting your shit together is degeneracy lol
Oct 01st 2015
197
RE: You really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't afford it.
Sep 23rd 2015
180
Her titties ain't shrink after making this post
Sep 23rd 2015
188
      RE: Her titties ain't shrink after making this post
Sep 28th 2015
192
Lol man it wont stop till everything is commidified and priced, huh?
Sep 23rd 2015
181
sheeit, alotta women need money to play da game too
Sep 23rd 2015
185
I agree.
Sep 23rd 2015
186
SimplyHannah swopes in and singlehandly lands the biggest blow in
Sep 23rd 2015
187
i feel some kind of way about this
Oct 02nd 2015
218
I don't see how anyone can be mad at this
Oct 01st 2015
195
I'm sayin
Oct 02nd 2015
199
This post is a Dating Advice Nightmare.
Oct 01st 2015
196
damn near every OKP post about this subject is
Oct 02nd 2015
198
This post is so depressing.
Oct 02nd 2015
200
There's love in many more places than dating
Oct 02nd 2015
201
      Yeah, but physical intimacy is more than just fucking.
Oct 02nd 2015
202
      Of course it is. Point still stands.
Oct 02nd 2015
204
           It is or it should be? I disagree with both, but I want to be clear
Oct 02nd 2015
205
                It is for me. I leave "shoulds" for the parties engaging...
Oct 02nd 2015
208
                     ' It is for me. ' Is the sentiment the OP should have ended on.
Oct 02nd 2015
210
      There are many types of love, sure.
Oct 02nd 2015
203
           Oh jesus christ, cut the crap, lol
Oct 02nd 2015
206
                So physical love < familial love? Got it.
Oct 02nd 2015
207
                I feel like you're being purposely obtuse here...
Oct 02nd 2015
209
                     Why would I purposely be obtuse? I just disagree with your entire
Oct 02nd 2015
211
                          Ok now we're getting somewhere...
Oct 02nd 2015
212
                Romantic love can be asexual just as much as sexual.
Oct 02nd 2015
214
As a dude....i wholeheartedly agree
Oct 02nd 2015
215
have a friend
Oct 02nd 2015
219
I took 'afford' to be more metaphorical
Oct 02nd 2015
221
The only time I dated "broke" was in college
Oct 02nd 2015
222
obama shouldn't have a NCAA bracket..but he does every year
Oct 02nd 2015
223

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