and the victim didn't want it releaed.

that said, i am not going to make excuses for him. he was dead ass wrong. when i was 18 i knew that a woman against a man was not a fair fight, that was restraint was the only option and just generally speaking would not have done what he did. most of the guys i played football with were the same way, though i do know there were a handful that didn't know better or didn't care, unfortunately. letting them slide is not the way to correct that.