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Topic subjectAnalyze this (alleged) text from Victor Cruz's fiancee to all of his sidepieces
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2482053, Analyze this (alleged) text from Victor Cruz's fiancee to all of his sidepieces
Posted by DonKnutts, Wed Oct-07-15 01:33 PM
http://i2.mediatakeout.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/Victor_Cruz_Wife.jpg

2482054, story
Posted by DonKnutts, Wed Oct-07-15 01:34 PM
http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/victor-cruzs-fiance-elaina-watley-sent-group-text-to-his-mistresses-2015710
2482062, What is there to analyze?
Posted by Cenario, Wed Oct-07-15 01:52 PM
2482066, i should clarify
Posted by DonKnutts, Wed Oct-07-15 01:58 PM
i read that (alleged) text initially as "loose cannon" and then reread it as "ride-or-die chick" - can't really decide which it is, maybe it's both
2482078, Women with cell phone that doesn't want to share her man
Posted by Cenario, Wed Oct-07-15 02:32 PM
2482065, It's an attempt to build team unity.
Posted by Kira, Wed Oct-07-15 01:57 PM
Every team needs to come together to reach new heights. This is a prime example of the forming stage.

VC's fiancee takes charge and organizes OTAs to the team performs better come game time.
2482071, once his star started shining I knew he was getting his
Posted by themaddfapper, Wed Oct-07-15 02:11 PM
he just seemed to have a handle on it, and was smart enough to have elaina around, a lot.

for it to get this messy. damn vic.
2482072, Sounds like pretty standard shit you would expect from modern women
Posted by T Reynolds, Wed Oct-07-15 02:13 PM
get it all out there using a mass text / phone call whatever else

She could have done a lot worse

Sure she might have figured one of the Vic's thots would send it to the press to try to get back at him, which is also expected sidepiece behavior

I see this as a non-story, only made painful by his current struggles to even get back on the field.
2482076, Right...i'm sure something like this happens 20x a year
Posted by Cenario, Wed Oct-07-15 02:31 PM
It's a real non story afaic.
2482160, My sister had an interesting response
Posted by obsidianchrysalis, Wed Oct-07-15 04:49 PM
Why wasn't she upset at HIM because he allowed himself to go visit these women?

If he's having problems remaining faithful in their relationship now, he's going to have problems during their marriage. He's going to have to commit to her at some point and it's paints him out to be a kid if he can't just tell these women, 'no'.

I can't say if I was in a similar situation what I would do, but it doesn't seem that he's really committed to her.
2482165, RE: My sister had an interesting response
Posted by kinetic94761180, Wed Oct-07-15 04:56 PM
>Why wasn't she upset at HIM because he allowed himself to go
>visit these women?

perhaps she was, & that's what all this is.

>If he's having problems remaining faithful in their
>relationship now, he's going to have problems during their
>marriage. He's going to have to commit to her at some point
>and it's paints him out to be a kid if he can't just tell
>these women, 'no'.
>I can't say if I was in a similar situation what I would do,
>but it doesn't seem that he's really committed to her.

listen to phonte's track - eternally #5 charity starts at home.

affion crockett breaks it down perfectly at the end.

and because it's a fantastic album.

http://keepitahundred.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/05-eternally-feat-median.m4a
2482226, RE: My sister had an interesting response
Posted by obsidianchrysalis, Wed Oct-07-15 09:48 PM
>>Why wasn't she upset at HIM because he allowed himself to
>go
>>visit these women?
>
>perhaps she was, & that's what all this is.
>

I'm sure she is upset with him, but her response to go at the sidepieces makes me think that he can't say no to these women and that rather than demand that he change and / or get help for Cruz to end his relationships, she's going at them.


>>If he's having problems remaining faithful in their
>>relationship now, he's going to have problems during their
>>marriage. He's going to have to commit to her at some point
>>and it's paints him out to be a kid if he can't just tell
>>these women, 'no'.
>>I can't say if I was in a similar situation what I would do,
>>but it doesn't seem that he's really committed to her.


>
>listen to phonte's track - eternally #5 charity starts at
>home.
>
>affion crockett breaks it down perfectly at the end.
>
>and because it's a fantastic album.
>
>http://keepitahundred.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/05-eternally-feat-median.m4a
>

Will listen.
2482172, people can have committed relationships without monogamy
Posted by Damali, Wed Oct-07-15 05:09 PM
if that's what they both want..none of us knows what's really going on here

i can tell you that if it were me, i'd have a strict "no extra women unless it's being shared w/me" rule...

my husband's an actor...a very handsome one, at that. i expect that women do throw themselves at him and will continue to. we have the kind of relationship where he knows i'm not threatened by that at all...and when the times become really right, that will benefit the both of us..alot :)

d
2482231, RE: people can have committed relationships without monogamy
Posted by obsidianchrysalis, Wed Oct-07-15 09:57 PM
>if that's what they both want..none of us knows what's really
>going on here

You're right. If they agreed to a more 'open' relationship that's fine, but then Cruz's fiancée's response is coming from a place of personal insecurity. She ought to be looking at herself to understand her jealousy instead of attacking Cruz's other girlfriends.

and when the times become really
>right, that will benefit the both of us..alot :)
>
>d
>

Then I wish that life grants you the right 'time' all the time. LOL
2482227, LOL @ "interesting response"
Posted by Orbit_Established, Wed Oct-07-15 09:53 PM


That's the only relevant response

If he's cheating on her, and she don't like it, she
should leave him.

This kind of anti-feminist shit that women do is hilarious

They directly participate in our treating them like shit.
Reward it, in fact.

She could walk the fuck away.
2482238, RE: LOL @ "interesting response"
Posted by obsidianchrysalis, Wed Oct-07-15 10:11 PM
>
>
>That's the only relevant response
>
>If he's cheating on her, and she don't like it, she
>should leave him.
>
>This kind of anti-feminist shit that women do is hilarious
>
>They directly participate in our treating them like shit.
>Reward it, in fact.
>
>She could walk the fuck away.

Men ought to show integrity, regardless of a woman encouraging bad behavior, but she's holding him to an incredibly low standard.

She's selling herself short if she stays and puts up with her values being compromised.

She ought to leave him. He's obviously been meeting with multiple women over a period of time and didn't seem willing to end those relationships. If they didn't have an agreement that he could see other women while they were together, then she ought to walk away.

2482255, It's her bootleg attempt at "being a strong woman"
Posted by Orbit_Established, Wed Oct-07-15 11:52 PM

She can walk away.

She won't because he's a millionaire and she hasn't
gotten married yet.

Fucked up power dynamic, but it is what it is


2482267, Basically.
Posted by B.J.S.301, Thu Oct-08-15 06:39 AM
Let him have those women. He's getting everything he wants. A committed lady and hoes on the side. Sometimes you gotta value yourself more. But I guess it would be difficult to separate from that cash though.
2482237, She should leave him. End of story.
Posted by Orbit_Established, Wed Oct-07-15 10:09 PM

The other women have nothing to do with her problem


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