>I know too much (TOO MUCH!) about some of the bullshit you're
>describing (a couple close friends do social work for a
>living, been known a girl who grew up with foster kids in and
>out of her home). it's not easy, but focusing on the bonds
>that truly tie is what will see you through.

Yep. I'm learning this. It's amazing how different it is. If you know social workers and people who grew up with these kids.... you're familiar with all this. It's a fucked up part of our world man.