For John, Bran, Sam, Torumund and them, nothing else matters. The red witch and the hound have seen the visions so they're on it too. Everyone else is thinking, yeah whatever, we got shit to do.

I don't think Dany is stupid as much as she's playing by different rules as Cersei. Cersei wouldn't give a fuck about civilian casualties. Dany's also feeling herself a bit much these days. With good reason but it's affecting her edge.