he tried settling down with leia. it didn't work. he tried being a dad. his kid turned to the dark side. at this point, he's a 60-year-old divorced guy whose son won't talk to him, so he decides to go back to being han solo. he's SUPPOSED TO BE the old dog going back to his old tricks, it's SUPPOSED TO FEEL LIKE the retired hall of famer who tries to come back for one last hurrah and gets destroyed by the 20-year-olds. IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE SAD AND PATHETIC. did you watch the movie?