with a friend, front row at a show. Circa 2000 or so - I think it was that "in the circle of f****ts your name is mentioned" lyric. And he came up to us after the show and literally thanked us and said he'd been thinking a lot about it and was trying to make some changes. Very sincerely. I was actually kind of touched by that. Means a lot to man up like that and fix it when you were wrong.

But I hear you, SoWhat. It's easy for me to let it slide as a straight guy.