>i've tried.

it's not as grave or somber as you've painted it.
it's a re-interpretation of things. a proposed "new" perspective in which they should be viewed to maximize their enjoyability.
when people watched a hughes brothers film like "menace II society" back upon it's release - not everyone interpreted it as humor.
but over time people have realized what it's best suited to be interpreted as.
this is that same principle applied to music.
i don't understand what your "issue" is.