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13523717, breakup soul
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 03:33 AM
think i loved it before i could even picture what a breakup could feel like. not a lot of niggas getting together in kindergarten but i had some super crushes ha. knew i liked the songs but the painful irony in the romance of it def didnt hit me then.

all the kings horses (sheesh)
miss you
keep you satisfied
send for me
maybe your baby (breakup funk?)

one mo gin prolly the best one of the last 25 years. def behind them on the league 75 but not far behind.
13523718, hmm...
Posted by c71, Wed Nov-26-25 05:51 AM

L.T.D. - where did we go wrong?

https://youtu.be/QFGUoiux5OM?si=UjmR71V7l-fcwmrd



Commodores - still

https://youtu.be/QPy9V5-mHnU?si=1SUJRD7ixYQ1M26Y


Commodores - sail on
.
https://youtu.be/AsJuD-bFeCQ?si=ZiR7L0H9v07jc7Qm


Commodores - easy

https://youtu.be/9nBSd1U18vM?si=yzFAQHUKVeeUPxgm


Faith Evans - you used to love me

https://youtu.be/Vc8sR60pwtA?si=_7IZQpJu5SKPd1BY


Faith Evans - alone in this world

https://youtu.be/Asrl5CbSC-s?si=SDhu3g_utl17jz7H


Marvin Gaye - when did you stop loving me, when did I stop loving you?

https://youtu.be/tpcSx4vKv8c?si=4rnn7bkKWRqjoMuF


Guy - goodbye love

https://youtu.be/9mOb8-OJG5s?si=BJhzwruvPtliaEZa



13523728, Sail On and When did you stop....
Posted by spades, Wed Nov-26-25 11:04 AM
Whew, them joints TUFF!
13523732, where did we goo wrooooongg
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 01:06 PM
yea ozzy kilt that
13523719, Spinners - I’ll Be Around is one of my favorite songs
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Nov-26-25 07:30 AM
shit is like an inspirational break up song due to the tempo.

Slick Rick - Teenage Love

hanging around and buying em stuff, you see them every damn day yet don’t see them enough!!!

and the dopest white breakup songs of all time is..

Wham - Never Gonna Dance Again.. guilty feet have got no rhythm. Yo!!!
Simply Red - I’ll Keep Holding On

13523721, RE: Spinners - I’ll Be Around is one of my favorite songs
Posted by tariqhu, Wed Nov-26-25 09:59 AM
you damn near have to smile when that song plays

https://youtu.be/93Tft_2jx28?si=YCIa8cyO6IT-0uju
13523724, I tore the house down at karaoke night at the spot back home
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Nov-26-25 10:27 AM
all my friends and family weren’t ready.

I showed the fuck out

I was drunk and high, the mic had a dope lil reverb on it and I already knew the words so I went all the way in. Old ladies trying to grind on me while my wife was cracking up

then went right back to the corner and sipped my $4 double of grey goose.

such a great song.

13523733, haha
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 01:09 PM
nigga said the karaoke acoustics were immaculate
13523771, when I sang fork in the roooad and heard that shit
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Nov-27-25 07:38 AM
it was over

13523734, $4 double Grey Goose?!
Posted by spades, Wed Nov-26-25 01:22 PM
Where they do that at?

and can you give me directions?

lol
13523770, that place closed but it was so lovely
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Nov-27-25 07:35 AM

Long Island mini pitchers for $7

it was our VFW. Used to go in there with 20 dollars and come out drunk, high, belly filled with food and change in your pocket.

Someone is buying you at least 2 drinks.

My aunt cooking catfish nuggets and wings. My dad smoking joints with his friends.My grandad used to sell liquor out his trunk right in front of the place during softball games.

That place used to have James Brown and Duke Ellington play after hours back in the day after they played in Pittsburgh

We had all our parties, wedding receptions at this place

Then all our elders passed away and the next generation didn't pay the taxes and we lost it.
13523800, Man... ain't that the way it go.
Posted by spades, Mon Dec-01-25 10:58 AM
>
>Long Island mini pitchers for $7
>
>it was our VFW. Used to go in there with 20 dollars and come
>out drunk, high, belly filled with food and change in your
>pocket.
>
>Someone is buying you at least 2 drinks.
>
>My aunt cooking catfish nuggets and wings. My dad smoking
>joints with his friends.My grandad used to sell liquor out his
>trunk right in front of the place during softball games.
>
>That place used to have James Brown and Duke Ellington play
>after hours back in the day after they played in Pittsburgh
>
>We had all our parties, wedding receptions at this place
>
>Then all our elders passed away and the next generation didn't
>pay the taxes and we lost it.

We fr losing recipes. :(
13523738, a time was had lol
Posted by tariqhu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:49 PM
13523720, a few...
Posted by tariqhu, Wed Nov-26-25 09:49 AM
keisha cole - I should've cheated
https://youtu.be/29qvbeDA0iU?si=wiYo2QqdPHo2R08p

aloe blacc - good things
https://youtu.be/ILLsVJ4ztFI?si=nllMDo05j53EETuZ

trey songz - we can't be friends
https://youtu.be/ArdBI_F1LKo?si=AVT0KK7F20lLBg5t

mary j blige - not gone cry
https://youtu.be/ejmTyb-ba4w?si=AC9V5IWds-kSwkNR

prince - eye love you, but can't trust you anymore
https://youtu.be/zOf3eecVTUM?si=FsaTnhtsvopegT8h

prince - eye hate u
https://youtu.be/3iQ1iC56i8g?si=cdeEAmH29tBWPRdx

prince - the beautiful ones
https://youtu.be/oK1Jl8tLzls?si=euE55wzN8vrcxPqB

prince - breakdown
https://youtu.be/69ElN3NSZnc?si=OAJ5nawFv-4pgy2Y

bridget kelly - special delivery
https://youtu.be/YUse1GFKf3o?si=eM86OlAvQd9fDKTn

jazmine sullivan - pick up your feelings
https://youtu.be/ZeP--wHHiy8?si=uxbSbUJUNoJdZ5sa

kelly clarkson - since you been gone
https://youtu.be/R7UrFYvl5TE?si=2Mzdg7O5JZQx1KwW

muni long - pain
https://youtu.be/mex6wFv0_wM?si=wyoNy3tBOVJdghjd

muni long - ruined me
https://youtu.be/aEfqOdomkMw?si=RyS9Iet-r3Jo5iYb

13523727, Bloodstone - Who has the last laugh now
Posted by flipnile, Wed Nov-26-25 10:44 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaLtuoohdks


Can't front, this joint helped get me through a rough breakup.
13523729, Some of my faves
Posted by spades, Wed Nov-26-25 11:08 AM
Funny How Time slips By - Al Green:
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=B1Cr4PQfNeI&si=Jnl5uiqhoTXKl3AE

Fools Gold - Jill Scott:
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=txhnecMuFpg&si=1eHKOLSAVOUkXhkf

B.F.U. Quentin Moore:
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=i97AYIjQlm4&si=CuteUnjKKTTgvQmJ
13523736, The Delfonics - Didn’t I (Blow Your Mind This Time)
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:48 PM
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13523737, Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes - If You Don't Know Me By Now
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:49 PM
13523739, The Temptations - (I Know) I'm Losing You
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:50 PM
13523740, Isaac Hayes - Walk On By
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:51 PM
My favorite version. Of course, the original by Dionne Warwick is great too.
13523747, love these two
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 03:43 PM
hard to choose for me. perfect juxtaposition of masculine/feminine energy.

hayes hurt as shit ha and the music is angry. love how the intro foreshadows the chaos at the end.

she also hurt but more like a sweet “really didnt wish you had to but also you should definitely keep it pushin when you see me my nigga.”

also like how the respective song lengths add to the story. hayes’ is angry but that sadness gonna give you 11 minutes to consider and maybe stop lol where dionnes is more resolute.
13523749, Great analysis of the differences between these two versions.
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 04:00 PM
The emotional response of the subject is very different in each case.
13523741, Not soul but "For No One" by The Beatles...yeesh...short and brutal
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 01:54 PM
13523743, 15 recommended ain't no use by Stevie here during my last breakup
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Nov-26-25 02:37 PM
Thank God 25 years later haven't need another breakup song.

**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
13523755, 15 replied to my poOost n im in a healthy relationship face ass
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 04:43 PM
whoopty doo (c) nigga ha
13523759, ??
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Nov-26-25 07:23 PM
What's the beef? If you are reading my post as a personal shot you are reading my post wrong.


**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
13523761, just teasin u man
Posted by grey, Wed Nov-26-25 10:51 PM
thought itd be obvious.

guess thats how niggas end up traveling to fight on here back in the day. one wrong post with a poorly placed comma…nigga ended a sentence with one too many exclamation points…next thing you know.

no beef at all playboy.

13523748, Bill Withers - Better Off Dead
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 03:57 PM
13523753, This is a HELLUVA song
Posted by spades, Wed Nov-26-25 04:31 PM
and if you can pull it off you can ROCK the crown on Karaoke.

The live version (Carnegie Hall) is the best version, IMO>
13523754, RE: This is a HELLUVA song
Posted by dagu, Wed Nov-26-25 04:41 PM
>The live version (Carnegie Hall) is the best version, IMO>

Never heard this one. Definitely checking it out.
13523826, Oh Shit!
Posted by spades, Tue Dec-02-25 06:17 PM
>>The live version (Carnegie Hall) is the best version, IMO>
>
>Never heard this one. Definitely checking it out.
>

You got to listen to the whole album then. I hate live versions. I hate concert albums

BUT THIS ONE....

Seriously, I've heard it a million times and I've NEVER gotten tired of it. Do yourself a favor and take the time to listen to that joint start to finish - it's entertaining as hell. Then do ME a favor and tell me what you thought, even if you hate it. I wanna know!

:)
13523758, Lenny Williams - Cause I love you
Posted by spitfire, Wed Nov-26-25 05:53 PM
13523760, Sade ‘Bulletproof Soul.’ No song resonated with me more than
Posted by Mignight Maruder, Wed Nov-26-25 09:52 PM
this one when I went through a divorce 8 years ago. Lyrics hit close to home. Just a powerful song. There were so many other songs that got me through that difficult time, but no song better encapsulates what I was experiencing better than Bulletproof Soul.
13523762, The whole second version of ?uest's "Babies Making Babies"
Posted by JFrost1117, Wed Nov-26-25 11:09 PM
Betty Davis "Anti-Love Song"
https://youtu.be/fxKBnR_8LIM?si=AQQnjC-PYu7pD9gv
13523774, Post to date i think spotify playlist
Posted by speedlaws07, Thu Nov-27-25 11:58 AM
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/21wexlWsQOGJboOXzCvhr6?si=W0UeHBkJTISfG7XZ1jUz5Q&pi=NbBPlVI5S1O7v
13523778, dope. thanks!
Posted by tariqhu, Thu Nov-27-25 10:08 PM
13523792, Monica - Before You Walk Out Of My Life
Posted by thegodcam, Sun Nov-30-25 11:54 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ptiz0KtR16E&list=RDPtiz0KtR16E&start_radio=1
13523793, Chris Brown - Say Goodbye
Posted by thegodcam, Sun Nov-30-25 12:01 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJ26gAc7BtU&list=RDy3HbIHGnSR4&index=2
13523794, Deborah Cox - We Can't Be Friends feat RL
Posted by thegodcam, Sun Nov-30-25 12:05 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01yPbUXnJZk&list=RD01yPbUXnJZk&start_radio=1
13523795, Boyz II Men - Doin' Just Fine
Posted by thegodcam, Sun Nov-30-25 12:07 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Koz393gAwjQ&list=RDKoz393gAwjQ&start_radio=1
13523796, Boyz II Men - End Of The Road
Posted by thegodcam, Sun Nov-30-25 12:09 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDKO6XYXioc&list=RDzDKO6XYXioc&start_radio=1
13523802, So Very Hard To Go - Tower of Power
Posted by Original Juice, Mon Dec-01-25 03:09 PM
So Very Hard To Go - Tower of Power
Kiss & Say Goodbye - The Manhattans
What Becomes of the Broken Hearted - Jimmy Ruffin
13523840, Another great one.
Posted by spades, Wed Dec-03-25 11:54 AM
13524054, Why was one mo’gin playing in my head
Posted by 3CardMolly, Wed Dec-10-25 07:53 AM
While reading the post title?

Call me by Bilal.
13524133, Best of the last 25 yrs is actually "Breaking Point" by Leon Thomas
Posted by Boogie Stimuli, Sat Dec-13-25 09:18 AM
but you have some great choices.
13524187, This is A BANGER.
Posted by spades, Tue Dec-16-25 12:02 PM
Recently discovered it and damn, if he ain't put his all in that song.
13524376, I like lucid dream better
Posted by grey, Wed Dec-24-25 12:16 AM