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but...

Is this all there is? I mean, I could ascend to CEO and then I guess everything would be different, but I thought the same thing before I hit CFO, Iono man, it all just seems kinda the same

also, I'm kinda over working for other folks. Again, this could be changed when I hit CEO, but again, past evidence says probably not.

Maybe it's time to just do my own thing.

and yes I know this shit reads, wah wah wah, poor little rich boy. lol

that being said...

wah wah wah. :(

I somehow doubt becoming CEO would change much.

Turns out that success in business doesn't necessarily bring happiness or fulfillment.

At least with money you can remove *some* problems, but Ma$e rightly pointed out that having more money can sometimes bring more problems.

Doing your own thing seems like the next logical step, but there are many private company owners who are miserable too.

seems wild. I been lightweight gunning for this my whole career then all of a sudden shit just kinda locked into place. *shrug*

Probably could have got here sooner had I not been bullshitting most of the time.

congrats man, that's major.

I would suggest finding a charity or cause you can put some time into to fill some of that empty in your bucket.

cause the reality is yes, this is it

"A job aint nothing but work?" -Mo Money

I wish the fuck I was, but not yet.

I mean I have retirement savings, a condo and savings but I don't "feel" rich. (And by the IRS definition I'm not even 1/3 of the way there.)

I think someone with a $40k year job and $30k in the bank and a mortgage might think someone who owns a condo outright and makes $100k a year is 'rich.' But the person making $100k doesn't feel rich.

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/income-level-considered-rich-140003986.html#:~:text=Based%20on%20that%20figure%2C%20an,%24819%2C324%20or%20more%20each%20year.

What Is a Rich Monthly Income?

The amount of money you need to make each month to be rich depends on which metric you’re using. If you’re going by the IRS standard, then you’d need to make approximately $45,000 a month to be rich. On the other hand, if you’re aiming for the top 1% as measured by the EPI, you’d need a monthly income of $68,277.

I'll bet you're rich compared the 25 year younger version of yourself!

>I'll bet you're rich compared the 25 year younger version of
>yourself!

Well yeah! Of course, but honestly just feels like the same cycle of paying bills buying shit going to work as it always has

I got some cushion now. Couldn't say I'm paycheck to paycheck anymore, but I can't say I don't 'need' my job any less than I did then.

I was joking but if you aren’t doing damn well as a CFO you got hosed on your title

I’m hunting right now but thankfully I have an emergency stash, a lil compensation package and a wife with a full time gig.

what I did realize is as soon as I got the slip, I immediately tightened my belt and realized I was just burning through cash because I was on autopilot.

Now I’m mentoring a young man at my kids elementary school and looking for a gig with a better work/life balance. I wasn’t getting home until 6pm and would only spend an hour with the kids before bed.

Get that money but live life and take ALL that vacation time to reset or remember what living is about.

Congrats on making CFO. That is some big dog shit right there.

I'm doing ok on my title. For my industry and experience level, my salary is in line with standards.

I could be making more, and likely will a little bit down the line.

Like, do you get a key to the 'special' bathroom like on the Simpsons when Homer grew hair? lol

Yes at certain organizations

but that's really only for LARGE orgs. I'm at a smaller one.

I often see folks at director level and can't imagine how they keep up with everything on their plates.

lots of long days and reports out the ass.

was at a football game out of state and towards the end got crazy bad floaters in one eye where I could barely see out of it

figured the stadium lights threw something out of whack and it would settle in a cpl hours. flight home nothing... try to sleep it off.. still the same. finally hit the ER the next day because incessant googling had me thinking I might lose my eye if I didn't hurry. They sent me to opthomology that day, turns out I have a small retinal hole and what I'm looking at is blood. They did a 5 minute laser procedure to repair it, and it's all done but I still gotta look thru blood for a couple months till it goes away.

overall just happy it was really minor. I might go get a pirate patch for when I need to focus though

Shit was disgusting. Eyeball got deformed and gooey. And it turned into a lazy eye. Eyeball blob hanging over bottom eyelid, etc. I didn't have a detached retina but there was too much blood from the retinal tear so a laser couldn't do the job....

when I first got in to ophthalmology, the doctor asked me what could I see on the eye exam chart. That is, walk up to it until I could see. I walked up all the way to the wall and still couldn't see it was blurry/muddy/foggy.

It was my 3rd retinal tear in, like, 3 months. Both eyes. 2 in the left. The worst one in the right.

Overall, 5 tears in 10 years. All laser procedures except the one cryopexy.

There's animation of how that black curtain would look like if you had a detached retina. I thought I was seeing that, but it was brownish. But it was just blood moving around my eye like a wave.

But yeah, any new floaters all of a sudden. Mine looked kinda like a tornado. Less so flashing lights/dots. Black curtain. Go to the ER or ophthalmologist, immediately.

all the examples I looked up were like no, no, sort of.. but I had no flashing lights.
Best I could come up with was it was like looking through a veil with a map design on it except it moves around with my eye. Tornado is good tho lol.
Looking forward (no pun) to it clearing up

but holy shit, why so many tears for you? all they told me for mine is that it's just age or could be genetic

Yea, man, all I did was bend over to pick up stuff from the ground (not heavy at all) and when I straightened back up, this huge swirl appeared whirling like a tornado. Lasted for a few minutes. Guess it was the initial rush of blood. Then it became a bunch of huge floaters, then blurry/foggy, then brown/muddy. However, for about a week before that, when I was reading I noticed at a certain spot in my vision that letters were incomplete. Like a gap in the letter o, a, m, for example. Also, maybe the night before, an arc of flash of light. So, I guess the initial tear happened a while before, but a blood vessel ruptured then it got bad fast.

The other tear before this, all of a sudden there were hundreds of tiny bubble floaters and flashes of light.

According to my doctor, nearsighted people are at higher risk for tears and detachment because the muscles pull more and apply more force on the retina. Odd thing is that the worst tear happened in my better eye. Another risk factor is how viscous the vitreous is. But, the good news is that the older we get, the vitreous becomes more fluid and less thick and less pulling force on the retina.

Impact/combat sports/training increases risk. High power movements, too, like Olympic Weightlifting. I've given up plyometrics and basketball. Even stopped deadlifting. I suspect that weighted neck training contributed to my most recent tear. I still train my neck, but do it slowly.

Doctor said sleeping upright/inclined would help clear the blood faster, but it still took almost 3 weeks for the blurriness/fog to go away. Beyond 6 months I still saw dried blood fragments (black dots).

Glad your procedure was just quick laser and it wasn't a detachment.

I read that about nearsightedness. Not nearsighted, even had 20/20 up until a few years ago, now wear progressives mostly for reading, etc..

I always associated "detached retina" with getting punched in the face, but all i heard from both eye doctors is "as we age..". I was like, I drank alot the night before, could it be that?" but basically they were like nahh you're just old Lol

Def gonna try sleeping more upright if that helps clear it sooner

glad you're okay.

thanks man

That was years ago, and seems to have gone pretty well.

How are you feeling now?

>That was years ago, and seems to have gone pretty well.
>
>How are you feeling now?

I'm straight. the blood is lessening. part of it is I jist got more used to it but i can tell its a bit clearer. other than that I feel normal.

they said up to 3 months but i feel like it will prob be all gone in a couple weeks

...the parking brake. I get in the car after her and it's rocking back and forth, and I can't see if a car is coming when I first start pulling out.

She's from the south... is that what it is?

in the south on side streets or in neighborhoods

we dont give a fuck

but unless you are on a hill in Manyunk who the hell uses a parking break in Philly?

...I always set it. Also, my college GF had a stick shift and she taught me how to drive one and told me it wears on the clutch if the brake isn't set. That, and the car could just roll away on a hill without it, lol. Not sure if that's true or not, but I just applied that to automatics. Our street is flat now so I guess we don't need it, but it seems weird to me to not use it.


>but unless you are on a hill in Manyunk who the hell uses a parking
>break in Philly?

I can't say if that's southern, but that's what a lot of people do rather than having to reverse getting out of the parking spot.

I rarely use my parking brake. maybe if I'm on hill.

someone else getting it while I circle the block.

nah, I get it. I park backwards a lot too.

Like if she sees a spot on the other side of the street, she'll just cut across the street and pull in, instead of making a U-turn and parking.

Like the car in this article: https://www.kiro7.com/traffic/why-do-seattle-drivers-park-wrong-way-and-why-dont/246866990/

I could see if it's temporary, but overnight, nah.

While working at a h.s. for a week and a student (age 16) was shot and killed about a block away coming out of a store. Why is it the school never made mention of the student, just continued business as usual. No talk of preventive measures to violence, no recognition of his young life and according to fellow classmates the kid wasn’t a banger etc.

I’ve never known a school to be so dismissive.

Purposely trying to downplay?

In a state of shock about what happened?

Not equipped to address?


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

I was thinking the kid was banging and perhaps the school didn’t want to further put themselves in it but that makes no sense when the news already reported the kid was a student of said school.

I was also wondering if the school was just waiting for more info to come out in addressing the student’s demise, but as the week went by, nothing.

Now I’m thinking they just hope the story gets swept under the rug as shootings of black folks often do, and that it doesn’t have too much affect on next year’s freshman enrollment.

Still you would think the counselors would at least push to have an assembly to inform students on the importance of their lives and making good decisions.

Definitely forgotten by the school system but thankfully his peers have not.

every time it gets close to the holidays they get fucking weird

this time my wife decided to remove herself from a nee family group thread her mom made because she added her sisters new new white husband who is SEVENTEEN years her junior to it.. lol.

I actually think my wife is in the wrong for thinking her opinion on this new white dude matters.

but her mom said if she left the group she was no longer family which is just dumb

mother/daughter relationships are so fucking toxic. I grew up with 2 older sisters so I’m a vet at this shit.

Seems like she does not want to interact with that dude, and she's willing to cut off anyone that tries to get her to. I'm the same way, so of course I'd agree with that, lol.

Also, what kinda dude marries a woman 17 years older than him? Unless he's gunning to be on her multi-million dollar plus will, I don't understand.

Long-ass evolving dreams with plots, subplots, continuity and all that. Weed really does fuck-up the REM sleep. No nightmares so far, fortunately, tho that 'Philly Favelas' dream I had was kinda interesting.

For some reason, I'm also sleeping more and falling asleep much easier. Like, if I lay down now I'm OUT.

...realized I didn't like that groggy head feeling that I get from smoking bud. I've taken a few T-breaks over the years, but I guess it's being older that made this one feel different. I thought I'd have more energy, but really I just feel more alert now when I'm awake.

Then there is the vanity aspect. I look better when not smoking, with no red eyes or bags. Been only 45 days, but I'm seeing my lips starting to lighten-up a bit.

Finally, there's the health aspect. I don't like smoking anymore. Before I stopped it was increasingly irritating my throat and lungs. I'm mid-40s, so I'm trying to build some new healthy habits so I'm not falling apart too much in my 50s & 60s. I was already considering switching to just edibles before I stopped anyway.

i mean...
its been scandal after scandal, yes
but holyshitthisisbasura

Uh oh, which Columbia? Chicago?

I saw some ads in the train station

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/06/06/us/columbia-university-us-news-rankings.html
https://www.cnn.com/2022/09/22/opinions/columbia-ranking-inaccurate-data-thaddeus/index.html
https://www.propublica.org/article/columbia-obgyn-sexually-assaulted-patients-for-20-years

Good for Prof. Thaddeus for taking one for the team.

I wish his efforts were a part of a coordinated effort to show all the schools in the top 10 are lying. Have to start somewhere I guess.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

the gynaecologist scandal - and how we buried it
how we are responsible for the poor reading standards across schools by getting rid for phonics - there's an entire podcast. we've failed students.
and being on this campus during this gaza siege. just off.

What an accomplishment.

You buried the lead.

Makes no sense at all to me.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

but the office is all female doctors. this is probably why...

We just happened to be at NYU but it could have easily been Columbia. It's all around the time my wife was pregnant and in new york.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

results they keep getting.




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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

...ability or willingness to think through things like you do, and that their emotions and perception of the world is similar.

Personally, I've accepted that I do not understand most other people, and probably can't.

is far rarer than most think.

I told them, shall see if they agree to it.

and just found out the guy I can't stand has been immediately placed on medical leave for 3 weeks after getting written up again.

if karma exist, this guy is getting it.

Second only to an ex calling you up on some "Baby, baby, please!"

I'm pulling for you, fam.

You got this fam.

haven’t given an answer yet.

the caucasity.

Wife and I are crunching numbers to see if we can live off one salary for a few months.

I hate not having steady income but at the same time..

man, ionno.

my old gig reached out a month ago and we have been going back and forth.

I been doing side gigs but not enough to say fuck you

but I haven’t accepted the offer yet.

.

Lord help her kids.

sovereign citizen adjacent with black empowerment angle to it ... I am not sure but I can see this turning out poorly for her and the kids. I am not on Facebook or any of the socials so I have no clue what is going on here beyond what I can find from google.

And how are her kids taking it?

>Lord help her kids.

The most common issue seems to be car impounds for a lack of driver’s licenses, insurance, and registration, followed by arrests and court dates.

Their defense is always, “I wasn’t driving, I was traveling”.

It makes for great, meaningless YouTube fodder.

I’m not sure what they actually get out of it though.

for domineering horndog brothers. What does the leadership structure of this organization look like? Any women near, or at the top? I think that's a decent gauge of how problematic things may get.

>Call me a hater but these organizations seem to make good hiding places
>for domineering horndog brothers.


There might be a few exceptions, but the majority of cults (of any race or ethnicity) seem to follow the above pattern.

or refusing to have state issued ID?

I’ve seen a few videos of people who have 2 inches of paper work who refuse to give identification.

She had been doing the bag lady look for the last few years but lately she has been showing folks she still got it.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0Me5fAOOdy/

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0JFrt2I_LR/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=adfccac3-5cd2-4624-b46c-18e58e06e5b7


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Well another car just *barely* missed him last night, and I was about 6 cars back.

It was dark outside. Dude is dark-ish and wearing dark clothes. He's on one of the busiest streets and a giant intersection.

And apparently, he's in the road.

Breaks squealing, everyone gets jammed up.

I don't know how close it was because I'm like six cars back, but I had to stop pretty quickly.

Good news: He does not get hit and is able to make it to the sidewalk.

I see him as I drive by and he's completely unaware or unconcerned.

Someone's going to hit him eventually, not sure what to do.

Should I accost him like: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMtcHinRWi8 ?

dunno what your guy's deal was but I feel like like I'm seeing this every couple weeks.

Either randomly crossing in high speed traffic like they could care less if they get hit, or actively confronting cars. Last time was a few days ago. Dude had a palm tree branch and was swinging at us

Dude is either eccentric or maybe on disability. He's clean and dresses sharp. He's just always in the road.

The homeless around here stay out of the street in 99% of the cases - but sometimes they cross slowly just to make sure they haven't turned invisible.

Most of the time people look away form the homeless - I'll bet it makes you feel invisible and unseen being homeless and no one talking or looking at you. Sometimes stopping traffic might be what you need to do.

fyi, she's white. she's very crazy when it comes to relationships...
she is currently dating a Black guy. i haven't met him yet, but she wants me to meet him.

should i warn him somehow that she is crazy? or is this not my problem? normally i don't care, but he's Black so I do care a little.

what I have witnessed from her already: stalking at 4am in the morning, accusations of rape, pregnancy scares (at 45 yrs old!!! LOL!), and other random craziness. it's so crazy i won't leave her alone with my husband, because I know she would try something.

that’s wild.

And she entertains me with her crazy stories. She's not my peoples.

She's always asking to do double dates and I'm like sure. Too bad my husband is always busy.... LOL!

Recently she asked if it was wrong to meet her ex boyfriend's parents for dinner. They broke up a month ago. She cheated on him with current guy. Do I think her current boyfriend would be mad. Of course her ex won't be there. She can't help it if her ex's parents still love her.

LOL! She's a mess... Never ceases to amaze me...

breakfast with the ex parents

So I have absolved myself of any responsibility. He also acknowledged she is crazy in front of her... in a jokey way at least.

And we even discussed Jonathan Majors and the risk of dating crazy white women... LOL! So he seems aware. I guess he just doesn't care... *Kanye Shrug*

and a Black woman telling a Black man to protect himself from a white woman is predictable.

He prolly threw you under the bus as soon as they left.

they had you for dessert. lol

Don't be shocked when he hit you up one day talking about "you were right... so, what you doing?"

lol, something kinda similar happened to me back in the AOL chat days.

tangent. Dont think I ever knew a Black woman named Meagan or Emily.

anyway, Meagan was supposed to hook me up with Melissa who was mixed and went to a private school. Used to only see her like once or twice a summer solstice so I was pressed. Even broke up with my GF to get at her.

Long story short, Meagan started catching feelings and cock blocked me anytime I tried to link up with Melissa. They were best friends.

Flash forward 15 years later and I cone home with my wife and walk in my dads house at midnight and who is on the couch smoking weed with my dad? Melissa!!!

wife was not happy.

Melissa asked for 3 hugs before she left. I asked her where is Meagan and finally she snaps at me. Meagan slept with my husband. Fuck that bitch.

Seeing the name Meagan and the whole Black white thing gave me flashbacks.

She seemed cool, got her phone number, exchanged those low-resolution or scanned pics that we had at the time. White girl. Hard to see what she really looked like in the pic, but whatever. She'd call me, we'd talk, one day she calls me from her friends' apartment, a black girl. Even put her on the phone. We talked, she seemed cool too. At this point it had only been a week or so since I met her online, hadn't met in person yet.

Seemed like a day or two later I get a call from the black girl talking about "hey, have you actually SEEN what (white girl) looks like?" I tell her only a blurry pic, she makes it seem like she's hard on the eyes, then goes right at me on some "Well, I look good tho... what's up with you?"

Kinda anti-climatic in the end tho. I switched my attention to the black girl, but she had a young kid (like still a baby), and was having issues with her apartment, so I moved on to other chicks I'd met at the time that didn't have so many red flags.

so.. this was HS when I tried to get at the mixed girl. It didn’t work out. So I started fake dating this Italian girl. Then I went to Park Slope for the summer and came back with chew sticks and Blackness on 100.

Italian girl kept calling but knew she couldn’t knock on my door because moms and my sister were not having it. She gets ANOTHER mixed girl with the MC Lyte hair cut to come knock no my door and tells me ole girl is around the corner.

Why she do that?

I was like “nah, I aint feeling her but WHO ARE YOU??? Lemme get YOUR number??!?

How you gonna get someone finer that you to come to my door?

Dated that girl for a while too.

can someone else make them now that dude is offline? lol

*skatin' the rings of saturn*


..and miles to go before i sleep...

.

I came back to my gig only under the condition I didn’t report to him


aint that some shit

thanks for 2 months off with pay

It's not a racist thing, but in my experience, especially when you come in from the outside, they have a REAL hard time respecting superiors that look like me.

and I'm tired of pretending it's communication style, or culture clash. This recent joint, had a director telling me she thought she was 2nd in command.

She's a director
I'm the CFO
Then there's the CEO.

There is no COO

how in God's name did you think you outranked me?

smh

I hate it here.

I had to write one of them up to get them to back tf up off me.

Even then the CEO (another white women) let this shit go WAY too far.

Actually she wasn't demoted. A black guy who was her equal was promoted who was her equal. She cried like a baby. My wife is impervious to WWT but I told her to watch her back.


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"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Cat fractured paw.

After $1400 in emergency vet visits in the U.S. they give estimate of $8k to amputate or $12k for surgery.

TJ vet (who has like 1,000 reviews on Reddit and Yelp) is doing it for $1,900.

The confession part is that it seems taboo to bring cat across the border.

Link to adorable picture of cat with a bandage: https://imgur.com/a/gj4pA46

Is there a such thing as pet insurance? Gonna look into it for my cats.

and insurance will reimburse you. not sure the percentage

>Is there a such thing as pet insurance? Gonna look into it
>for my cats.

it's so rough seeing your animal in pain

They took an X-ray and it's all good, but needs another x-ray in two weeks, then possibly a minor surgery to remove a little of one of the plates depending on how everything heals.

My older, 17 pound cat, is chasing him - and rough housing because he doesn't like him and I've had to separate them at night and they both screech ALL NIGHT long and I can't sleep at all.

I'm hoping in 6 weeks that everything will be back to 'normal.'

Thank god I don't have kids - if one broke their arm I wouldn't be able to cope.

I love my neighbors, but city/county is frustrating. I feel like Big Gipp where I’m tired of seeing so much fucking trash.

House will be paid off within 10 years, which is when I want to retire. If I move, that means with higher interest rates, higher mortgage and higher cost of living, I’ll have to work longer. I flip flop every week on what I’ll do.

Condo is PAID off and my property tax assessment is low, like based on $240,000.

So if I sell the condo, then take a BUNCH of money from savings (or a mortgage) to get a detached house I'll be assessed on the the full price of the new house, probably $800,000 or up. That's like $600 a month more than what I pay now.

Then, in my case, an $800,000 house is the lowest or the low-end of the market in San Diego, so it'll be more money for a very basic house - not a dream-home. (link to an $880k house on the *busiest* street in my area: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/5356-Waring-Rd-San-Diego-CA-92120/17194274_zpid/ , and a $700k in a house in an area that's 'okay' but that I would not want to live in: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/9332-Pebble-Beach-Dr-Santee-CA-92071/16885955_zpid/)

Maybe focusing on money is the issue - maybe we should focus on happiness instead.

Because you might be able to hustle more money in the future, but your probably not going to be able to clean up the neighborhood/city/state/country.

(moneywise it makes 1000 times more sense for me to stay put.)

unless you are moving for a job

or somewhere cheaper

We are thinking about adding on to our house or renting this one out and buying another house.

Let me keep it real. We aint moving. We love the area and only have 6..5 years left on the mortgage.

We made moves to be pretty much debt free by the time we retired. It makes absolutely no financial sense whatsoever to move. I have a family member who chased happiness and l and leans heavily on us financially in their elder years. I see this a lot at work and with friends, which will likely keep us from moving , ‘cause we don’t want to do that to our kids.

But I can’t deny that the neighborhood is not the same and I don’t see it improving.

Guess we’re not moving to San Diego cause WTF!!! And I know that house isn’t as big as it looks in those pictures.

Buy something in Mazatlan, and work remotely.

Hoping one of these side projects/hustles takes off. Don't need millions, just a few hundred grand.

I'd consider downgrading on the house (square footage) if the neighborhood & yard space was really nice tho.

>Maybe focusing on money is the issue - maybe we should focus on happiness instead.

We can buy a very nice place within a 5 minute walk of her work, in the same relative area we've rented in and loved for the better part of a decade... or we can save 100K or so, move far away to an area we don't know, farther from our friends, buy a second car, and have her commute for 90 minutes to 2 hours every day.

End of the day, I'm not convinced the things we'd do by saving that money-- a nicer vacation every year, more in savings, etc.-- is worth the 8-10 hours every week in transit she'd spend and the distance from the people and places we love.

So we're going to try to tighten the belt buckle, I'll work a little harder, and we'll focus on the happiness spending more time together and having a lovely home in an area we love will bring.

Be having me not trusting her. The valley girl accent is really throwing me off, especially since she claims she's from Philly. Too much "yeah" and "cool," as well as the upspeak.

Talking about taking rock climbing and pilates classes. She's probably ~10 years too young for this site tho.

She's cool tho.

but I don’t think she has seriously thought about all it takes.

if we sold the house I’m sure we could do it.

But I doubt she is with selling the house.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

it definitely explains why this board is a bit unstable

Mods need to be moderated

question: is he still a mod? This shit messy.

Thats not to say accusations shouldn't always be taken seriously but this is quite a thing to just put out there. Feels pretty reckless

I think you are capable of reading dates and names.

you could use that capability, or you could make up fiction about whoever doing whatever.

what you do with the information is up to you.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

2. It felt like an odd way to go about this

Granted I don't personally know anyone involved, so perhaps instead of some type of announcement referencing her post you wanted it plain in her own words without editorializing or explaining why you're posting it. If that's your reasoning I do get that

I don't know what way of handling this that would be that wouldn't be odd, so I did what I could figure out.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

I came back fully expecting it to be gone , along with the comments in this post

which.is um..interesting

which is wild.

FB comments seem to confirm dude been a POS to a few folks IRL.

either this is an organized hit or this nigga got some explaining to do.

but I ask again..

Is he still a mod?

it doesn't look good. I still don't get making an anchored post about it. It's a fb post not a court document

>but I ask again..
>
>Is he still a mod?

Yeah idk. I'm so used to comments like these being deleted quick. I remember when reeq got a time out for something minor, and any comment about it in CW got immediately removed, so right now guessing no lol

>it doesn't look good. I still don't get making an anchored
>post about it. It's a fb post not a court document

To warn others about his behavior, in case anyone else here gets to know him in real life.


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gamblers and masturbators.

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and is lying and stealing from people in this community

then people here should know.


>Is he still a mod?

afaik, his account does not have those abilities anymore.

it's just not something I have direct access to change/verify.


www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

>>Is he still a mod?
>
>afaik, his account does not have those abilities anymore.
>
>it's just not something I have direct access to
>change/verify.

FWIW, there's still an "OK" displayed on his user name. Usually when someone gives up/loses their mod status, that disappears.

Not that I have any f-ing inside knowledge of anything regarding this situation.

I believe her.

I don't know why you wouldn't believe steph, considering they lived together and she hasn't posted here in years, and it's now obvious why.

I don't know why you wouldn't believe Kenny (Kay Dee) who basically pulled the people here together.


That would be a lot of doubt to have.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

c'mon folk...

I aint calling anyone a liar

and don’t try to make me the villain in this shit.. I’m just a shocked bystander.

but at least try to read more to see shit in real time.

First post is IF after it first dropped. 127 gives more info after reading the FB comments.

Don’t be that guy fam.

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

What happened to the new one every week? Add that to the fact the no one is touching that post AND other things ... I shed a tear but, next cert error and it will all be over.

but you are correct about the cert.

and I wonder if this means we can create more post that don’t get yanked because dude was a bit of an asshole when it came making new threads in OKS.

Tomorrow is Wed

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

Ayy I got u guys it should be fixed within the hour... ooh a quarter

not the first incident he's had with someone he has befriended on the boards. So in order to keep him from using OKP backchannels for support after the latest falling out...

Allegedly he's been logging on here to play holier than thou from different women's couches for the last few years. Yikes.

>Allegedly he's been logging on here to play holier than thou
>from different women's couches for the last few years.
>Yikes.

lmao.. right? According to multiple sources dude been way too invested in moderating OKP for FREE instead of working and helping pay rent.

Log off and get yo shit in order.

>
>>Allegedly he's been logging on here to play holier than thou
>>from different women's couches for the last few years.
>>Yikes.
>
>lmao.. right? According to multiple sources dude been way too
>invested in moderating OKP for FREE instead of working and
>helping pay rent.
>
>Log off and get yo shit in order.
>
>

>>Allegedly he's been logging on here to play holier than thou
>>from different women's couches for the last few years.
>>Yikes.

that shit is a serious problem.

lo and behold...they bums.

i may be a lot

but i have never stolen from a friend.

never crashed out and used someone if anything I got used

never laid hands on not one woman

etc

let the boards tell it im pure evil tho

very interesting.

chickens coming home to roost like a mfer


on sabbatical.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

but I just peep how life has defeated all naysayers in ways that I would not be able to compete. I pray for them in between laughter.

my record player is cute, but it's trash in sound quality.I only paid $75 and it matches my decor really well so I'm not trying to get rid of it. I must find a way to switch from receiver to transmitter so I can upgrade to better speakers. called myself looking for RCA ports on the back before I bought it but they're RCA IN instead of OUT. What the fuck am I going to run into these speakers, an iPad?

There are a couple of bridges I do want to repair but I know things are too far gone.

c'est la vie
s'il la gare

I hope they all get better, but in particular, I hope ole girl and her son heal COMPLETELY from this.

Fuck

I really thought we were all trying to get better.

Y'all be good.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

And they should definitely start with a mental health professional before looking for cosigns from their circle.

would have done anything other than shut homey down.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Nah lol

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

I kinda just skimmed it and moved on lol

I actually wanted to see where it was going, I was hooked

Thought they were gonna say they woke up soar or some shit.. lol.

We need a healin’

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizophrenia

It could be very treatable - it happens to *a lot* of folks. Nothing to be ashamed of.

www.engadgethd.com - the other stuff i'm looking at

and it bothers me when folks assert that they are.

Are some of us here misogynistic, almost certainly - that being said us AS A WHOLE?

I just don't see it.

Now of course, this is how things like misogyny, racism, etc operate - I'm not SUPPOSED to see it. The idea that a place I have spent a not insignificant portion of my life is a net negative in the world and I can't even comprehend it is fucked up.

That bothers me too.

:/

with a woman was viewed as misogyny.

GD was where the women actually posted. I think at one point the boards descended into something unlike "SOHH" but with the advent of other social media taking off and then becoming enpoopified, things chilled out for a minute.

honestly if you look back to the "golden age" shit was way more wild in that regard than the aforementioned "SOHH" era. but there was far more participation on the boards then too.

so I get it.