It was “out of shape women need to lose weight” “women need to be realistic” “are you around the men you want to attract? No”
The criticism never really got as deep as you took it it was largely based in the feigned idea of him bashing black women when he was really just telling men and women alike to be realistic with yourselves. All that other stuff is what you make of it but that was not the genesis of the discourse around him

Ultimately he just wanted men and women to be better and be honest with themselves on where they stood in life. And only one side looked at that and said damn maybe he does have a point