He gives men and women both a reality check, much of which is probably needed. He does it in a harsh way, hiding behind “just telling it like it is” rhetoric in the process, but even that’s not the problem.

He can’t handle being challenged and shuts down anything that presents a challenge to his points, up to and including psychological manipulation tactics.

He’ll say something to someone, and if they disagree, he’ll spit skme shit like “aee this is your problem, you don’t want to listen”- diverting the onus away from wheter or not he had a valid point, and laying fault squarely back on the other person, all with no real or sincere evaluation of the point that was questioned.

Its other shit too, he condones men cheating under the guise that they’re just exercising their options on one hand, while vilifying Black women for high divorce rates as he squashes any contextual discussion about *why* on the other.

And a fair amount of men listen and buy into those overarching tactics and philosophies.

So he’s not just the Simin Cowell of image consulting. There’s more to it.