13444169, cisheteronormativity Posted by Mgmt, Sat Oct-09-21 12:03 AM
>I already know most of y'all kneejerks won't read it or >engage with the actual assertions in it; I'm posting it for >okp posterity. Hopefully this entire post gets archived. > >https://twitter.com/RaquelWillis_/status/1446516461091135496 > >"Dave Chappelle represents a segment of society (along with >white supremacists, hoteps, incels, and others) that is >anxious about the waning power of cisheteronormativity and the >patriarchy. > >People like him know that their outdated, limited view of the >world is obsolete, and instead of transforming in the name of >empathy and humility, they lean into toxicity. > >Chappelle reveals the ignorant tensions in the Black community >about queerness and transness but doesn’t have the range to >turn them on their head. In fact, he underscores the bigoted >status quo. > >It’s convenient for Black cishet male comedians to talk >about LGBTQ+ folks as if our group is only or even >predominantly white. With that frame, they don’t have to >contend with how Black cishet folks often enact (physical and >psychological) violence on Black LGBTQ+ folks. > >With that frame, Chappelle and other Black cishet men don’t >have to acknowledge that their hate of trans and queer people >is more than “just jokes.” It regularly becomes beating >“the queer” out of young people, shunning us, and even >killing us. > >Let’s be clear: Homophobia and transphobia aren’t just >dynamics that exist in the Black community. It’s antiBlack >to assert that narrative, especially when most of the anti >-LGBTQ+ policies pushed around the world come from a white >colonial power structure. > >Interestingly, many Black folks think of queerness and >transness as white inventions because much of the most >regressive LGBTQ+ policies in other countries have been >exported and stoked by white conservative and evangelical >politicians. > >Chappelle could have laid bare his insecurities with his >gender and sexuality. We know so many Black cishet men are >scrambling to understand their place in a cultural context >where queer and trans people have microphones and platforms >too. > >Take, for instance, the DaBaby, Boosie, and Lil Nas X debacle. >The tirades against queer and trans people being visible are >really about their fear that their toxic and limited views on >masculinity are losing their footing. > >What does it mean for Black cishet rappers to contend with the >fact that Lil Nas X has transcended beyond their success? They >take it as an insult to their “rightful” place as the >gatekeepers of Black culture. > >And what does it mean for Black cishet men, writ-large, to >contend with Black women, Black LGBTQ+ folks, and more >charting their destinies independent of their patriarchal >“leadership?” > >They feel owed the power that white cishet men have >historically had, and they haven’t gotten it. They think >we’ve jumped a few steps in the March toward equity any time >they’re held accountable for their transphobia and >queerphobia. > >Yes, transphobia and queerphobia are about fear. I don’t >entirely buy the reframing of these concepts as solely about >“hate for LGBTQ+ people.” They are fearful of losing a way >of life, a claim to power, and a claim to an identity that is >rooted in dominating “lesser” groups. > >I challenge Black cishet men to interrogate what their >identity means to them. Who are you without being the >“head” of the household/tribe/culture? Who could you be if >you saw Black community-building and cultural-building as the >collaborative effort it truly is? > >Who could you be if you took on expanding Black masculinity >and manhood without having to repress other Black experiences >of the feminine, gender nonconforming, queer variety? > >It’s sad to witness Chappelle’s decline. He was once >someone we could count on to punch up against white supremacy, >but in a time where damn near everyone is “woke on race,” >it seems punching down on the trans community is his shock >tactic. > >Chappelle is now a wealthy cishet Black man with little else >to offer to his audiences, but low-hanging uninformed fruit. >And cishet folks who claim the LGBTQ+ community have to thin a >skin also lack the range to confront their own prejudices in a >meaningful way. > >Lastly, it’s particularly sinister for Chappelle to wrap his >special up with a narrative that the trans community viciously >went after Daphne Dorman. I don’t buy it. He’s using that >to justify his hate. > >You’re telling us that a community that has been so >intimately aware of doxxing and harassment almost since the >inception of social media is the culprit when we live in a >society where trans folks continue to face systemic >discrimination? > >And for all the folks caping for Dave’s narrative about his >“trans friend,” do you consider the trans people who will >be harassed and experience violence because he told millions >of people to not take our experiences and voices seriously? > >Dave’s using his trans friend’s story is hardly any >different than white people using their token Black friends as >ammo to shoot down their racism. And the “trans on trans” >harassment narrative plays out like the “Black on Black” >crime narrative. Dave just skirts accountability. > >Lastly, I’ll just say one of the greatest tells that he is >disingenuous is that he in one breath claims Twitter isn’t a >real place (or the concerns of trans folks don’t matter), >but that the trans people on Twitter led to Daphne’s demise. >It’s all nonsensical. > >d > >"But rest assured, in my luxurious house built on the backs of >people darker than me, I am sipping fine scotch and scoffing >at how stupid you are." - bshelly
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