its odd to tell people what is common in a marriage.

Especially when a lot of people in here are going against your opinion on how common it is

I think some folk simply have a definition of what a marriage should be and once they are actually married they find out its nothing like what you expect.

Its prolly why the divorce rate is so high. Its not like the movies or a biblical marriage. Its 2 regular ass people who don’t actually change who they are once they become married.. and when people admit or accept this reality they fine tune their marriage to work the best way for them..

or they say fuck you and bail