>I’m being serious

and that's why i asked. if you're serious, then yeah, ask away

>its something I know I wouldn’t do but I’m curious if
>there is some type if “contract” when it comes to
>pleasuring a person.

>Do you have to finish what you start or can you move on if you
>aren’t feeling it and see something more interesting.

this is addressed and practiced during the opening conversation. its definitely ok to decide that you no longer want to continue something or that you want the interaction to shift in some way. from what i remember, he encouraged us to say something along the lines of "can we try something different"..but i can't remember the exact phrasing

but yes this is extremely important. if at any time, your consent changes, its important to let the other person know. and they will be fine with it because that's a part of the sacred container that was agreed upon before the play party began

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