Of our list.
I know that’s not the PC thing to say or think…. But I think kids are easily a separable entity from marriage. They are not necessarily a required by-product of it or sole mission.

So, if I had to pick one thing it’s the fact that there’s someone that was down to commit to me and that I was down to commit to without hesitation. No second guessing or hemming and hawing. We clicked from the day we met, not on some love first site steez either…. Just clicked and built from there. When the time came for matrimony, There was no need for us to seek outside council, advice, blessing or any of that. We decided, set the ball in motion and told folks that we wanted to celebrate with to get on the train or bounce.

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"