this is what I was planning

i guess, I was wondering if there were/are other things I might not know or think about

I mean, fuck, I grew up in a place/time where NO ONE got married. Grandparents were married, old heads were married....the parents of my peers? Not a ring or thing in sight.

if you called someone your "wife" it was because you were just rocking for so long (and had kids) the title was used.

So, this is new shit on top of new shit for me.