It's the equivalent of a white person saying nigger in white company and being mad at the white friend saying they shouldn't say that. Does the person saying it need to be in black company in order to be corrected?

Now I can't speak to the person who said that to you's tone, they could have been real assholish about it. But the actual ask is correct.

I say this as someone who is still learning about the harmful things that have come out my mouth i thought were minor. If these micro aggressions are going to stop people have to be called out on them and people have to be willing to hear them in good faith no matter who it's coming from.


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