I hate the logic of "if someone says something stupid, we laugh at them, not intellectualize it."
Like, if that's how you handle it, that's cool. Not everyone is you. There are multiple ways to approach a situation and the intellectualizing is just as valuable (or even moreso, imo) as the just laughing and shaming.

And goddamn she says nigga a lot. And I say it a lot. But she's just fucking egregious talking to these white people.