>naps are off the table since they are on a tight
>sleep/eat/play schedule and changing one thing like a random
>nap fucks the entire day

fair point, lol.

>when melt downs happen we just reset using a variety of
>methods each one in choice form "you COULD do the thing we're
>asking or you COULD take a time out / go without ____ / not
>get _____" it's an escalating system that ends with a
>consequence

ok, we’re on the same page.