Yes, I agree that men are not taught to cultivate relationships for non-capitalist, darwinian reasons.

I don't know enough about how men think to understand why. But the high suicide rates, addiction, domestic violence, general self destructive male pattern of behaviors speak to something deeper missing, especially in American men.

Personally, I think men need a higher calling- not sports or money. It doesn't have to be Jesus or Allah, but many men need to aspire to something noble and only then do we see a deeper heartfelt masculine love arise.