I have one friend post college I consider family, and at this point even we have been friends for over 15 years. All my other friends/brothers I've been friends with forever, some since I was 11 years old. A couple different circles involved, but I talk with em at least weekly if not more often. My kids call em uncles. I would think most men probably do need deeper relationships overall, I'm just not one of them. I have deep, long standing relationships with several other men and it's great.