I lost a lot of my childhood guy friends when I moved to another state at age 12...(I moved once from BK to Queens before that)

When I first moved to Philly, I had a few guy friends early on but that dwindled as time went on...
I do have one childhood friend who, just like me, moved from NY and we have been cool since (I guess we had that common bond)..

I'm fortunate to at least have that.. oh and my barber.. I knew him for so long we can talk on a deep level..


college and Post college friends are cool but it's all surface (similar to what you described above)