>We are in the process of refinancing to a 10 year mortgage.
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>Stating together for the kids and dating other people? Wow.
>Thats all I got to say about that.

We're over with, as a couple. So we're not free to date "other" people, we're free to just *date*.

We don't need to remain romantically involved in order to remain family, which we are. Our relationship has simply taken a different form.