You’re right in daily life you can get infected but I work from home and I go out very rarely (to get my Instacart grocery delivery, sometimes to the store in my building for last minute stuff)...

I don’t necessarily trust just having social distancing in a small apartment even if we stay 6 feet away from each other for 14 days, we share a common space that I’m sure won’t be wiped down every time one of us opens the refrigerator or turns on the faucet to wash a dish.

I don’t really care about her going TO see family, I mean I care about her as a person but my biggest concern is when she comes back from that flight, and what the folks on her flight might have that she brings home to me.

Day 1 of her back is maybe in theory fine.

But day 2 through 14? Anything could happen and I’m not interested in being the guinea pig in that situation.