and it’s always the same shit.

You look so “this or that” and it’s not usually based on complexion. It’s based on the way they interact with people


I’ll put it this way.. I dated more than a few because I was caught up AND I wanted to bring them all to the dark side. We know it’s a small sample side but hell, I prolly dated

Women who identified as Black or White ALWAYS carried a bag of quotes and memories that helped confirm their beliefs or reason for identifying as such


What’s odd is anytime I was able to witness conversation or experienced that didn’t align with them they didn’t see it or glossed over it.

I’m not denying they were treated different but looking at them sure by side it wasn’t due to hair color or straightened hair.