the whole point of "me too" was for women to come forward and say "this happened to me too". for the offenders to basically use the phrase in the form of a trap is disrespectful. i've heard dudes say they don't even want to be around women because they don't want to get "metoo'd". like really dude? you're acting like women are sitting around plotting how to force you to harass them? that's so twisted and backwards. shows how much of a problem it is in the first place.