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Topic subject"If I approach you....I gotta offer you somethin'"
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13360562, "If I approach you....I gotta offer you somethin'"
Posted by c71, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
Supermarket: woman lingering around me, so....I'm "supposed" to say somethin'....but....then I have to "offer" somethin', right?

Should she have broke down and stepped up and "offered" me somethin' (her phone #, etc.)?


heh heh

(nah, she wasn't all that...so I wasn't "offering" nothin' off the bat)

Poll question: "If I approach you....I gotta offer you somethin'"

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That's the way it ALWAYS has to be (0 votes)Vote
Nah, people (especially women) can "flip it" so that even though she.... (1 votes)Vote

  

13360569, The Ugly Chick Holla will have you over analyzing ya entire
Posted by isaaaa, Sat Dec-28-19 01:49 PM
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13360588, You're weird, probably not your fault though
Posted by tourgasm, Sun Dec-29-19 03:49 PM
You are both people. Start a conversation. If isn't reciprocated move on. If it is, have a good conversation, if there's a connection, connect.

13360590, I've definitely done that, but....this is more about that
Posted by c71, Sun Dec-29-19 04:41 PM
Nebulous zone where a person might be swayed by an "ego boosting" type of approach (and probably only that)

13360594, wtf
Posted by atruhead, Sun Dec-29-19 06:27 PM
13360603, shoot your shot or pass the rock
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Dec-30-19 06:27 AM
13360623, I've got an SO, so I chat up women all the time without hollering
Posted by flipnile, Mon Dec-30-19 12:23 PM
Not every social interaction has to end in a holler. Fun when we got out, and my lady is talking with her friends. I start floating around randomly talking to women (and men, as well). Always interesting when the women get that "well, aren't you gonna holler?" body language and I gotta let them know I'm here with my girl and just chit-chatting.

Anyway, if you want to holler then holler. Fortune favors the bold.
13360626, folks aren't "getting" that I'm suggesting sometimes a man
Posted by c71, Mon Dec-30-19 12:27 PM
might kinda look favorably on a woman not "hinting" at the man "holla-ing" ("hollering"?) AND the man wants to see if the woman will just hand over the phone number.


Why folks acting like the man always has to do stuff?


You seen a woman do more than hint about what the man "should" do.
13360630, Even the women that are head-over-heels for you probably won't holler
Posted by flipnile, Mon Dec-30-19 12:42 PM
Just how it is. Just recently, I was at my college's homecoming talking to a few ladies I went to school with, and when I was leaving one came up to me and told me her friend really liked me and wanted get my phone number/holler. Thing is, I was talking to her for like an hour and she gave NO indication that she was interested like that.

On the flip side, the women that aggressively hollered at me were usually the types I wasn't interested in. One of life's ironies.
13360631, which is it?
Posted by lsymone, Mon Dec-30-19 01:04 PM

Do you or men in general, if you could speak for them, want women to approach/holla at them especially during this #metoo climate we're under?




>On the flip side, the women that aggressively hollered at me
>were usually the types I wasn't interested in. One of life's
>ironies.

13360635, only the most stubborn of male hunters don’t want a woman to holla
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Dec-30-19 01:19 PM
I always appreciated a woman who made the first move.

Anything to crack the ice is cool beans.

Not sure what metoo has to do with any of that either.

IMO like with women, it’s all about how the person looks. If you are attracted it doesn’t bother you at all... if she’s ugly then it’s, “why me?”

I got accused of being gay because I turned down a woman who wanted to dance. Whatever makes her feel better about rejection is cool too.




13360636, Absolutely prefer them to initiate in the instance
Posted by snacks, Mon Dec-30-19 01:22 PM
… mentioned above where there is no indication otherwise that she is interested. It could go either way in any other circumstance
13360649, I prefer to approach... not sure about what most men would prefer.
Posted by flipnile, Mon Dec-30-19 03:19 PM
Always works out better that way (for me).

Seems like when women approach me, they don't realize that I'm a weirdo and are disappointed when they figure it out. When I approach, they know right away.
13360632, just hand it over? This ain’t the movies bruh
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Dec-30-19 01:08 PM
Unless you that nigga or in college you are going to have to do “something” to get her to throw you then digits.


How many times has a woman have you her number?