Hanif Abdurraqib's "They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us" was my answer to this post last year and his second book "Go Ahead in the Rain: Notes to a Tribe Called Quest" will be my answer for this year. Hanif is so good about sharing his relationship and memories with artists as a fan and how music has woven in his life while also allowing the reader to reflect on how it's woven in their own.