>Only time I ever heard a black dude say that was when they
>were quoting what a white girl told them.
>
>Yo bruh. She said her daddy called her a ...lover.


I can imagine some Asians or Latinos using it against their own. I stress the word, "some."

Like you, I've never heard a black person use it as an attack on another brother/sister. That's part of what made it so nuts when Clayton Bigsby said it.