that's most likely not what he really thinks or feels, which is why he fumbled the execution of it. What he was probably trying for was something more like "damn, I'm sorry that that message (anti-gayness/homophobia) was all around you and caused you to feel the way you did. But that message is bs and there's nothing actually wrong with you or who you love". etc. Kevin couldn't pull that off, though. His inner defensiveness kicked in and he wound up using the wrong tone and word choice. It would have been better if he just hadn't said anything (which was probably impossible - everyone there knew the point was to get him and LNX into a direct dialogue over this issue.)