Yeah my wife is having a difficult time because she and I handle things differently. I internalize everything, I carry thing for a extended period and then usually I am able to move on. She likes to talk about everything and anything to do with a situation.

she's gotten upset for me not talking to her or me getting upset cause I ask her to not bombard me with conversation but what I just explained or updated her on. I feel like she is constantly asking, what about this with your mom, what about this, who is doing that, where is this, when such and such. I can't do that. After 3 or 4 hypothetical or follow up question I lose my patience.

Focusing on work like you did is what I want, but I am having a difficult time with it right now. I'm scared I will be worse if she does die soon.