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Topic subjectAm I soft AF, or is it horrible treating Mickey like this?
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13340345, Am I soft AF, or is it horrible treating Mickey like this?
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Dec-31-69 07:00 PM
Here is the video:

https://twitter.com/i/status/1141521191913443328


This is an extension of our ongoing corporal punishment discussion, but I think this is also pretty awful way to raise a kid even without laying a hand on the child.

The divergence of the responses on twitter saddens me. For some people to think this is not only okay but funny?!? SMH.

I wish someone could do the deep dive evaluation on folks who co-sign and don't co-sign this ish.

Poll question: Am I soft AF, or is it horrible treating Mickey like this?

Poll result (31 votes)
You soft. Ain't no big deal. It's funny even. (15 votes)Vote
Nah, you right. That's traumatizing. (16 votes)Vote
"I was _____, and I turned out fine!" (0 votes)Vote

  

13340347, One of the MANY reasons I wish we could just go home schooling route.
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Jun-26-19 11:45 AM
>Here is the video:
>
>https://twitter.com/i/status/1141521191913443328
>
>
>This is an extension of our ongoing corporal punishment
>discussion, but I think this is also pretty awful way to raise
>a kid even without laying a hand on the child.
>
>The divergence of the responses on twitter saddens me. For
>some people to think this is not only okay but funny?!? SMH.
>
>I wish someone could do the deep dive evaluation on folks who
>co-sign and don't co-sign this ish.
>
>


"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"
13340352, Why?
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Wed Jun-26-19 11:53 AM
I am a bit torn. My boys see other kids and even parents acting wild (we watched this dad damn near cus his 4 year old out walking down the street) and they look at them like Aliens and don't understand it.

I am glad they recognize bad behavior, I am worried about them being not able to handle it when it comes at them.

I feel like they need to see enough of it to recognize it's wrong and be prepared to knock it down when it comes there way.



**********
"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"
13340356, Mostly concerned at how it affects how the kid interacts with others
Posted by FLUIDJ, Wed Jun-26-19 12:06 PM
as they get older....
We already see a marked difference in many of our daughters classmates just based on how their parents parent.

>I am a bit torn. My boys see other kids and even parents
>acting wild (we watched this dad damn near cus his 4 year old
>out walking down the street) and they look at them like Aliens
>and don't understand it.
>
>I am glad they recognize bad behavior, I am worried about them
>being not able to handle it when it comes at them.
^^^^^This^^^^^ This is what the biggest concern is along with how that may adversely affect the overall learning environment


>I feel like they need to see enough of it to recognize it's
>wrong and be prepared to knock it down when it comes there
>way.




"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"
13340351, Nah. That’s the 3rd or 4th video of these and it’s terrible.
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Jun-26-19 11:53 AM
Sometimes kids aren’t hungry.

13340377, Or don’t like the food.
Posted by MEAT, Wed Jun-26-19 12:57 PM
13340358, Can't decide what's worse:
Posted by Marauder21, Wed Jun-26-19 12:11 PM
What they actually did or the fact that they filmed and posted it to the whole world.

All of it was completely unnecessary, but posting it so you can go viral just sucks, your kids don't need that.
13340363, The laughter at the child's horror is the worst part
Posted by Selah, Wed Jun-26-19 12:15 PM
13340361, I've seen these used on dogs too
Posted by walihorse, Wed Jun-26-19 12:14 PM
with dogs I thought it was funny.

Doing that to a kids is too much. I though the kid looked scared and confused as hell. I mean people laughing while its happening.

I am not expert, so who knows if this will cause issues.
13340362, So the Lesson is what exactly?
Posted by Selah, Wed Jun-26-19 12:15 PM
"Do what I want/say or I will beat something u care about?"

or

"Don't end up like Mickey"?

sick.sad.world
13340368, He's trying to say "Don't end up like Micky."
Posted by stravinskian, Wed Jun-26-19 12:26 PM
He tried to make Micky eat just before he beat him.

Thankfully the kid is almost certainly too young to read it that way.

The message the kid got was "Dad is scary. I don't like him." And he'll remember that message for the rest of his life.
13340364, The kid is too young for this
Posted by Lil Rabies, Wed Jun-26-19 12:16 PM
a three year old might get the joke(?), not an infant. Alas, yet another bad parent.
13340366, Ugh. People are trash.
Posted by soulpsychodelicyde, Wed Jun-26-19 12:24 PM
13340367, kid will be in his college dorm cafeteria still thinkin about this
Posted by Amritsar, Wed Jun-26-19 12:25 PM
every time he eats
13340369, This guy thinks Trump "says it like it is."
Posted by stravinskian, Wed Jun-26-19 12:28 PM
13340373, garbage.
Posted by tariqhu, Wed Jun-26-19 12:48 PM
what's he gonna do when that kid begins to speak up to defend him/herself? if he can't handle the kid now........
13340376, Yeah, let’s psychologically abuse our infants instead of guiding them
Posted by MEAT, Wed Jun-26-19 12:56 PM
This is gross
13340378, Conditioning his kid to associate eating with violence
Posted by bentagain, Wed Jun-26-19 12:57 PM
That kid develops an eating disorder

and/or is the lunchroom bully beating up kids for their tastykakes
13340732, Conditioning his kid to associate non-compliance...
Posted by flipnile, Thu Jun-27-19 04:55 PM
...with extreme violence.

"Do as you're told, or..." *pow*

It's pretty fucked-up on a deep level.
13340389, dude posted it and then told people to mind their business
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Jun-26-19 01:19 PM
when it didn’t get the results he expected.
13340607, This tells you all you need to know
Posted by micMajestic, Thu Jun-27-19 10:35 AM
>when it didn’t get the results he expected.

13340594, And you know this has been going on/conditioned for a while
Posted by rdhull, Thu Jun-27-19 10:02 AM
This wasn’t the first time he’s done this, this has been practiced. Kid is now conditioned
13340610, These people are copycats trying to go viral
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Jun-27-19 10:39 AM
13340698, ^THIS^
Posted by KnowOne, Thu Jun-27-19 02:26 PM
nm
13340600, this is probably the least violent thing that dad does to the kid..
Posted by My_SP1200_Broken_Again, Thu Jun-27-19 10:16 AM
..you wonder what stuff he doesn't film for the world to see.


13340603, "See what happens to Mickey when he doesn't eat?" *pow*
Posted by flipnile, Thu Jun-27-19 10:25 AM
*pow*

Kid: *eats food*

Kid (a few months later): https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/am2VK6y_460swp.webp
13340611, Didn't know that went viral.
Posted by Lurkmode, Thu Jun-27-19 10:41 AM
It's the second one I've seen.

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/tanyachen/parents-beating-toddlers-stuffed-animals-viral-videos-dad-po
13340770, RE: Am I soft AF, or is it horrible treating Mickey like this?
Posted by jimaveli, Thu Jun-27-19 07:24 PM
Not everyone should have kids. It takes some time to learn how much everything matters but you need a bunch of vision to recognize mistakes. Merica for sure and earthlings in general are far too in love with their ways.

>Here is the video:
>
>https://twitter.com/i/status/1141521191913443328
>
>
>This is an extension of our ongoing corporal punishment
>discussion, but I think this is also pretty awful way to raise
>a kid even without laying a hand on the child.
>
>The divergence of the responses on twitter saddens me. For
>some people to think this is not only okay but funny?!? SMH.
>
>I wish someone could do the deep dive evaluation on folks who
>co-sign and don't co-sign this ish.
>
>
13340784, My child wouldn’t eat much tonight and had a meltdown
Posted by MEAT, Thu Jun-27-19 08:52 PM
My sister is over and she wanted Auntie and was wild tired
So
I picked her up, and walked her through the house
And then we commandoed around corners like soldiers
The we changed into bed clothes to huge cheers
And then we told everyone night night.
Tried the food again, still no good, encouraged her that it’s ok to not want something and that I hear her
And then put her to bed

All kids want to know is that they’re safe and loved.
I can’t imagine the limited range of a man that can only show fear and intimidation.
13340811, How tf is red leading this poll???
Posted by KiloMcG, Thu Jun-27-19 10:34 PM
That looks like terrible fucking parenting to me. Good gracious.
13340833, Something funny might be going on.
Posted by stravinskian, Fri Jun-28-19 06:50 AM

Yesterday when I looked at the poll it was like 10 (blue) to 1 (red).
13340831, This is definitely wrong
Posted by makaveli, Fri Jun-28-19 06:19 AM