If you gotta do all of that, the relationship ain't for you at that moment.

Person A should do what they believe is best for their relationship with Person B if Person B is important enough to them.

Person B should not attempt to control Person A since that may bring about resentment and, as said above, is a waste of energy.

You can't go around checkin people because they do you dirty,. You voice your feelings and/or the facts. Then if you care enough, you observe to see if changes are made for the best interest of the relationship. If you don't care enough, you kick rocks and deal with the pain of being hurt by someone you allowed to intimately build with you.


Saying, "It's hurtful to me for you to talk to or plan to spend time with guys whom I don't know" is COMPLETELY different from saying, "You better not talk to that nukka again or..."