how you move from then one.
I was pressed for time and kept it short....

>I did, and that was that
>
>I'm moving on. I'm going with option A

Good for you. There's a lot of loving to be enjoyed between now and the unknown.

>She's mentioned other male co-worker's names before in
>conversation
>I didn't get any spidey sense tingling whatsoever
>
>With this particular one, I did
>
>I'm not a caveman. Of course she's gonna talk to dudes at
>work
>I talk to my female co-workers all day
>I just happen to draw the line at "let's go out just the two
>of us"
>
>I literally lost sleep over the energy and vibe I was getting
>and that's not how I want to live
>so I spoke up, we talked it out, and I'm KIM
>
>She said I would have an opportunity to meet dude
>I said ok

^^^this part. Skip that. Meeting dude is nothing but an unnecessary ego stroke at this point. Stroke your partner instead....

"Get ready....for your blessing....."
"Bury me by my Grand-Grand and when you can come follow me"