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Topic subjectThat's the thing...insecurity is only a problem for the person that's insecure.
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13338763, That's the thing...insecurity is only a problem for the person that's insecure.
Posted by FLUIDJ, Tue Jun-18-19 07:39 AM
>and if he has legit reasons for not trusting her after an
>argument it’s also an issue.
Only two options:
A)Trust her, fall back, and enjoy life with her until a real life confirm-able undeniable infraction occurs.

B)Don't trust her. Keep pressing her, being miserable, always worried, always scared, always on edge, always trying to hard dap every dude that's in her vicinity, always wondering if somebody else is getting her attention more, etc...aka...just wasting her time and his time defeating the purpose of being in a relationship in the first place.

>Only time I’ve ever been insecure like this was with my ex.
>My suspicions were correct too.
Pssht...I got mines until I couldn't get it no more. Not saying I didn't want to put hands on dude, or that I didn't loose sleep...but I def. kept the wheels turning on my own life. Granted this was college days because I BEEN old and washed...but still.

>Wonder if she was dating someone else when they met?
At the end of the day, do it matter though?

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