Not saying you gotta bounce, but you should be prepared to if need be. I know I seem extreme sometimes but it's out of concern.

Every time I've been in or seen this situation it turned out the same way. Reality is she has a date set up with another dude, and kept it secret from you. All you gotta do is put yourself in the dude's position to get a good idea of the situation.


Hope it works out, either way.