that whole hookah lounge episode, I was out of town

She was all I don't see him like that, it was a work thing, I don't shit where I eat, I'm not interested in dude, etc etc

So that's why I was adamant on "let's go the two of us"
2 sides to every story, I'm only getting hers
She says he brought it up first
then she did

I asked: if he didn't flake when you brought it up, would you have gone then?

She goes probably not, I was tired, I'm glad he flaked
me: so why bring it up in the first place?
her: *kanyeshrug*

To me this was some old I want attention but then dude was getting too close for comfort
We all know women can never get enough attention
shit has happened to me in the past
"what's all the smiling and hanging out for? is she being nice or is she interested?"

I'm putting this to rest once I meet dude
for now it's trust but verify (don't want to go through her phone but the truth always comes out anyway)