I see both sides of it.

Once people flaked that should’ve been the end of it. Cause after a few drinks the excuses start. “I wuz drunk!!!!”

Not trying to start anything but why can’t she go out with you or with other friends?

Going out to lunch tho... yeah, that dude was prolly in the prowl and it’s unfortunate your SO was in the mix. Sometimes tho... it’s totally innocent.

Buuuut, sometimes we like attention even when we know why we are getting it and that it’s the wrong type of attention.