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13338256, So yeah...I had an emotional affair
Posted by tully_blanchard, Thu Jun-13-19 08:24 PM
This was back like...lets see...I moved in 2013...s maybe it started in 2010? 2011?

This was when I was heavily into djing, and my wife got sick of talking about it/hearing about it. I knew a female dj that lived in Atlanta, so we just started texting about the bs of getting gigs/promoters...dj shit. I actually came to the A and hung with her one night. She was djing, I was drinking on her tab, it was cool. Now, I had known her for years...she's my ex sister in law, so I'd known her since she was in high school. I never looked at her as somebody I would smash if given the opportunity..I just always saw her as a peer...somebody I could talk shop with and bounce ideas off of and trade music..somebody who was invested in this (djing) as much as I was. The emotional part came in because, again, this is someone who understood what I was going through, and somebody I could give advice to. Her presence was important, because I was receiving full support from this person...something I wasnt getting at home anymore.

When we moved to Atlanta in 2013, she asked if I could cover one of her gigs and I told her I would. The family was still in Charlotte, so I called wifey and told her that I had fell into a gig. When she asked me how I got it, I told her. Don't know why I thought she'd be okay with that...but she wasnt, lol. Needless to say 6 years later I still hear about it...and how it bothers her that she'll never know the full extent of the relationship between me and her. I told her (wifey) why I did it, and she made me feel guilty for it. I guess she had a right to...she was busy with home stuff and here I am djing 5 nights a week. Anyway...it's prolly just about attention. We all like to have attention from the opposite sex, whether we'd really cross the line or not. Go and meet ol boy...not to be Bad Ass husband or anything, but acknowledgement can go a long way in these tyoes of situations




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