it always starts off harmless, then you add some drinks, then it turns into "it didn't mean anything or it just happened"

Don't talk to her about this...

Communicating your feeling about this will only tell her you're worried about her leaving you....

Do NOT give her the pleasure of knowing that.

Instead, start hittin' the gym heavy and working on things you're passionate about.

Get you some new gear, and step your overall appearance game up.

Holla to other women and display to yourself that you have options too.

Sad fact is, people are only as loyal as their options.